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33 New Orleans, LA Man, Other

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 15
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has kid(s)
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Just throwing it all out here:

- I'm ALL over the place (as you can see or will see).
- Definitely a hopeless romantic that loves affection, cuddling, and
good romantic comedy (Love Actually ?)
- I’m rather ~ Intense ~ and full of energy but always looking for
that - (rare) gentle reminder to slow down (which is always
- I'm ambitious and fun. (You'll see)
- I love science, philosophy, politics and all the other fun stuff you
shouldn't talk about! I love a good debate!
- I'm weird … but it’s enjoyable.
- I can't spell very well, especially "continue" (not sure what the
deal is with that).
- I’ve been described as lesbian by previous girlfriends.
- I used to be against emoticons but have warmed up to them in
recent years.
- I am a nerd (a spreadsheet is better than any puzzle!) .

So if you want fun or interesting and a good conversation with a new friend then - let's chat! (Unless I'm having one of those socially awkward days, which let's talk tomorrow. ;) )

I'm Captain Planet (or an environmental scientist) by day and love my job and I work a lot.

I have an awesome daughter and am a full time Dad, first. Coaching her soccer team is one of the most fun things I do.
Lastly - I love music, trying to dance (if I'm drunk enough or alone), running (to release this energy), festivals, shoe shopping (don’t ask), concerts, meditating, partying, reading, loving, cuddling, talking, … I’m pretty open.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working my ass off saving the world! (What are any of us doing?) haha …

But really - I work a lot though definitely still find time to enjoy life while trying to put it ALL back together and regularly taking on more than I can chew...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving problems, when they’re not mine. (Well... solved in my eyes ~ hehe)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: "Thus Spoke Zarathustra"; "Walden"; "The Sun Also Rises"; "Grendel"; “The Selfish Gene”

Movies: "True Romance"; "The Fugitive"; "Mary Poppins"; "Dressed to Kill" - Eddie Izzard

Shows: "Modern Family"; "Californication"; "The L Word"; "Homeland"; "Shameless";

Music: 90s Alternative (offspring, smashing pumpkins)... is there other music?....
Butt also 80s new wave (INXS, Duran Duran, Depeche Mode);
classic rock (Supertramp, CSNY); and hair rock (like
GnR!)...always Gwen Stafani and guess I can't deny ...Katy Perry,
other fun music.

Food: Lettuce and PB&J (not generally together!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Daughter
2. My journals and poems, saved from over 20 years.
3. Beauty and Passion and Love
4. Converse
5. My thoughts
6. And Google!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophy, love, insanity, the 90's, music, the 90's music, passion, existence, the environment, fishes (yes fishes, not fishing), reality, gender, pollution, driving, my daughter, my adventures, my friends ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I could be home with my thoughts or I could be dancing, at a drag show, at HOB, rocking out, partying until the wee hours of the morning or having a good dinner or coffee and a great conversation. [I told you I’m all over the place!!]
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a foot fetish, it happens, I can't deny and we’re not all creepy! wink wink
You should message me if
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