I make my money being a programmer. But what I really am, is a solutions finder. It's just that the solutions I come up with aren't always what people want to hear.
I am not perfect, but I am not a monster. At least, not all the time.
My reading material is largely Fantasy, with some Science Fiction and Mystery. I will occasionally read non-fiction but that's usually just computer books.
I am somewhat active, currently involved in Tai Chi, Shorin Ryu karate, and occasionally nude swimming (I bring the volleyball net for the NIFTY swims).
Oh yeah, I'm vanilla. Okay, maybe a little bit pistachio, but still not kinky in any way.
I am in a relationship with rainbow. We've been committed to each other for a very long time now, and I am sure will continue to be for an even longer time. Part of the success of our relationship is that we've never lived together. Somehow, it just never seemed the thing for us to do. That might be partly why we are poly (http://www.vanpoly.org/). We've both had other relationships along with our own. Right now her primary relationship is with her new son, who is, no word of a lie, you can ask any stranger on the street, the cutest baby *EVAR*!!! He is a darling to have around and their visits are sunshine on the dark side of the moon.
I am inoffensive, reliable, and fun