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  • Ages 27-37
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Jul 27
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a guy who thinks too much, laughs too much, and is interested in way too many things (think too much spare time on Wikipedia). I actually used to read newspapers for a living, so that may tell you something about me, or it may not. I like a lot of different kinds of movies, and books,-I'm pretty easily entertained. Animals and people (ok, some people) are something that's always fascinated me; I've gone to Lake Tobias and the Aquarium in Baltimore at least 3 times apiece. Also swimming (really anything water-related, I've recently gotten interested in kayaking) and the outdoors. Those pictures above are not totally accurate-I am not as hairy now, and thinner, and a bit grayer (long year). Also I'm usually better dressed. And yes, there are better pictures of me out there than the profile one. Just not that I can get scanned anytime soon.

I enjoy traveling, exploring, and just talking- I'm stubborn sometimes but a good listener and very comfortable with emotions. Books, movies, whatever-I just like learning and having fun! I also love thunderstorms and the outdoors.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've had a lot of varied experiences in my life (working in a casino was interesting/depressing), and the result is that I'm looking for a way to use my creative talents and get paid to do it, as well as trying to spend at least an hour a day in the gym/pool. I'm also seriously considering going back to school to get a degree in journalism.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading. Making people (including myself) laugh. Starting to write odd stories and never finishing them. Helping people. Going out and exploring new places and people. Being patient.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes my smile, or more recently it used to be my facial hair, since it is naturally red and I am not a redhead. No idea where it came from, we're not a redheaded clan. Had to shave though. Aside from that, I have not asked and do not know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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No teen sex comedies, or brainlessly "heartwarming" (think the opposite of "Love Actually") films. I want something with a little oddness or pizzazz. I like bad movies just for the amusement factor. Also, big on Game of Thrones.

I like all kinds of books, really, especially history (currently reading one about the history of the Papancy and Rome).

Music: Pretty much anything except stereotypical country or gratuitously vulgar rap. 90's classic rock is good-I'll just change stations till I find a song I like. Also NPR, though that's not really music.

Food: I like a lot of different types, and am exercising regularly to curb that affection. Don't like eggs on their own, not sure why. Or raw tomatoes, though sauces are good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Animals (though I can't have any here, sadly)
Swimming (it's so commonplace and extraordinary)
My ability to learn
My hands (stop, you have a dirty mind, I'm just very tactile)
Money (I'm not greedy or anything, it just seems like an obvious answer)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything that interests me: politics, science, people, the world. Really never stop thinking, which can be damned annoying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or curled up with a good movie or book. Depends on mood or finance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I worry more about other people than myself.
I wish I could see my life and self more clearly.
You should message me if
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You're interested in learning about life and want someone along for the adventure who can listen, laugh, and learn along with you.