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Zen4Life

43 / M / straight / Single

Victor, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am Honest, Secure, and Funny.

My Self-Summary

Some words that would describe me would be honest, down-to-earth, funny, smart, sweet, and playful. I work hard and want to meet a woman for socializing and enjoying intimate times like going the movies, romantic meals, cuddling up and watching DVDs.

Ultimately, I want to meet a woman whose interested in a real, long-term relationship and all the thrills that go with that – holidays, romance, and fun of course. Let’s go for dinner and see if there’s some magic between us.

What I’m doing with my life

I work full-time for one. I have kids that are with me half-time that I absolutely love. I love to travel to very picturesque places.

I’m really good at

My job, being a Dad, and photography.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have absolutely no idea. No, really. I will have to get back to you on that one.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I pick books depending on my mood or interests at that particular time. I like lots of different music though I lean somewhat towards popular alternative music.

I like a american, italian, indian, chinese, seafood, and thai. Big fan of Tastings. You up for that?

The six things I could never do without

My kids! My friends. My job. My jacuzzi. My computer. My camer. My kids (I know I said that twice, LOL) And food is a plus too.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How did I get here? LOL. Seriously, I think about how I can improve myself.

On a typical Friday night I am

Eating out, movies, or chillaxing at home doing any number of fun things. Anyone for Rock Band?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I will most certainly tell you once you get to know me.

You should message me if

You think we have some things in common.