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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 7
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let me just describe how I enjoy life. I like to see challenging exhibits at art museums that change the way I think. I wander around the National Arboretum in the Asian Collection. I bring my camera everywhere. I like to go to good restaurants and try to reverse engineer the recipes at home. I love my bike ride to work everyday but I could never wear spandex shorts.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I love my job but I don't feel like I need to bring it home with me. I had a very brief career as an art teacher. Along the way I was having fun with technology and now I do geek work in the arts field. It's a good story. I'll give you the details over a drink.

I spend a lot of time with my 15 year old son but less as he gets older. I like to get away to NYC whenever I can to see exhibits. I'm looking for a partner to explore new places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing a social gathering and then disappearing when it gets too crowded, answering any question even if I have no idea what I'm talking about, cooking with garlic and olive oil...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Friends tell me I have a welcoming smile and it's easy to make me laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I went through a phase of Douglas Coupland but I hope I've out-grown it. Pattern Recognition by William Gibson. American Gods by Neil Gaiman, Lately I've been reading a lot of non-fiction like the Freakonomics series. I hate to admit it but I'm a sucker for Gladwell. I loved Susan Cain's book Quiet.

Movies: Chunking Express anything by Kar Wai Wong, Wings of Desire, Lost in Translation, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Shows: House of Cards, Orange is the New Black, Broad City, Good Wife

Music: The xx, Cloud Nothings, Cat Power, Galaxie 500, Low, Yo La Tango, alt-j, StereoLab, Feist, Liz Phair, The Strokes

Food: Rasika, Teaism, Jaleo, Daikaya but I'm just as happy staying in and making you your favorite meal.

Can I add a category or two?

Podcasts: The Bugle, Slate, Serial, Ronna and Beverly, 99% Invisible, Love and Radio, Strangers

Artists: Vermeer, Villareal, Rothko, Sugimoto, Whistler, Noguchi
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Zen tea
Internet connection
Dark Chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the confidence I should put into the OKC algorithms. I just looked at my own "personality" and it describes me as less geeky. Not true at all, Geek is a badge I wear with honor.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on the Friday. I have a great group of work friends from around the city who get together often. I like seeing what's at the Silver Theater. I have tried every ramen shop in the city in search of the perfect bowl.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oh no, isn't that what all those other questions are for?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Message me if you want to wander around museums together. I am a big fan of the National Gallery, Hirshhorn, Phillips Collection, Freer/Sackler and I would love a partner to go up to the Baltimore museums like AVAM. Let me know if you want to go see the lotus blossoms in the aquatic garden or to the arboretum in the fall. We could go out and explore some new restaurants together.