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  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Today – 1:59pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from space camp
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Other (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My life seems to revolve around food. My father taught me how to cook after my brother went to college. My first job was at Wendy’s. In my senior year in high school, I worked at a donut shop. I waited tables during college. After coming back from Senegal for the Peace Corps, I moved to SF (in part because I would fantasize about all the food I could eat if I were in SF and not a village in the desert). For a couple years, I lived in New Orleans because I needed get out of SF, and NOLA was the only town where I could eat well and save money. The money saved took me to Thailand and neighboring countries to experience the local curries. After the money ran out, I ended up back in SF where I got a job behind the scenes in a fancy restaurant. I was able to take a year off to go to South America and toured the whole continent looking for flavors not realized while I was in the Bay Area.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
figuring out how to make delicious pizza in my small oven

avoiding cultural trends and icons of consumerism.

doing my share of minimizing the impact of climate change on this planet

trying to be a pinball wizard
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* making chili with the proper amount of burn

* tending a campfire

* getting dogs to lick my face, getting cats to give me permission to pet them (then they start purrrrrrring)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My clothing choices are based on three criteria:
* texture - velour and seersucker are faves
* is it shiny?
* comfort - nothing skin tight, it's gotta allow airflow
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite music is too hard to condense here, suffice to say that I like a lotta music except current pop music. Tom Waits, Flaming Lips, Black Keys, Lee Morgan, Billie Holiday, Art Blakey and Lee Perry get heavy rotation, but I am also getting into the many forms of Brazilian and Indian music and am dabbling in some old blues and ragtime jazz of the early 20th century. Rdio (and other streaming services) is such a wonderful thing! I can search and listen to albums that I would never buy. WWOZ from New Orleans is worth streaming at any hour.

I've become sort of a podcast junkie while traveling- Snap Judgement, This American Life, Stuff You Should Know, StarTalk, TED Talks, Freakanomics, Sporkful, Radiolab, and Sex Nerd Sandra passed lotsa time while on the road and now plays while I work. Judge John Hodgman cracks me up on a consistent basis.

Food can be summarized as stuff that tastes good, preferably spicy hot and/or spicy tasty. While I can appreciate the decor of a restaurant, I am focused more on the flavor than ascetics.

Books - Geek Love, Fear and Loathing, Vonegut's stuff, William S Burroughs, Harold Mcgee and Michael Pollen. My current favorite cookbooks are: Cooks Illustrated Science of Good Cooking, The Family Meal by Ferran Adria and Pok Pok. Wanda Coleman's poetry is quite heavy.

I identify with Zippy the Pinhead - sometimes there are soundbites of brilliance, sometimes there are nonsensical jibber jabber.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The six things I could never do without when dropped into a foreign land with a foreign language...

* map
* phrase book
* camera
* sunglasses
* bicycle
* functioning olfactory senses to sniff out mysterious foods in mysterious places
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
when will I be able to fit in a nap today?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
iEs una fiesta!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I used to deal sugar in middle school. Every morning I would buy a buncha candy before getting on the bus and sell everything by 4th period. Jolly Ranchers stix were the big sellers. Sugar Daddys were a close second.