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38 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:34pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from med school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
keen on consciousness expansion as well as the internal . . . interests include running for charity/good causes/the distance, social justice, great conversations, comfortable silences, the arts, music, dance, and experiences that make the most of our collective experience of being human.

xenophile . . .

proud immigrant.

Don't want to belong, No need to belong.

I am NOT looking for someone to complete me . . . i'm already a whole person . . . and would hope that you are as well. ;-D
What I’m doing with my life
Now a decade+ in Gotham . . . After a long stint in the Midwest .
Brought across the ocean at a young age from my origins . . .
Between the forest and the sea.

working in the healthcare field for a not-for-profit community health center . . .

i've accomplished my goal of setting foot on all 7 continents . . . now turning to the internal < though i still love to travel, but it is getting a bit harder to get away >.

writer / musician manque . . . heh heh . . .

ellipses addict . . . of metropolis.

but with all there is to see, do and explore, it would be infinitely better to have someone special < or tolerable, heh heh, i'm not picky > with whom to share it all.

low key, no pressure . . . we should have all the time in the world.

my pace is glacial.

the 100 Thing Challenge . . . spending too much time looking at the minimalist living on Apartment Therapy

and sometimes i really just don't know. and i'm okay with that.
I’m really good at
listening to people and finding common ground . . . Analysis/daydreaming. . . and remembering that the limit is NOT the sky . . . living in the moment, but being aware of consequences . . .

< and i'm pretty good at pulling teeth, ha ha . . . seriously ;-D >
The first things people usually notice about me
the antennae! their eyes always go to the antennae!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS : Words written by Frank Herbert, Haruki Murakami, Neil Gaiman, Umberto Eco, David Sedaris, Charles Bukowski, David Mitchell, Amitav Ghosh, Albert Camus, Martin Amis, Alison Bechdel, Chinua Achebe and a host of others. Classical and Contemporary.

CINEMA : Indie Films, Documentaries, International Films / mindless entertainment

MUSIC : Most kinds of music ( especially indie rock / shoegazer / experimental / ambient ), anything having to do with Justin Broadrick, big fan of British Music, sounds that move you and make you groove.

my own lefty strung-upside-down bass adventures

currently haunted by this . . .

and for gettin' down . . .

SHOWS : PBS / BBC / British Comedy < Peep Show is dead brilliant! and The Thick of It is also lovely >/ Mysteries, Dr. Who, Art Shows, Experimental / Theater, Architecture, Dance, Orchids, Interactive.

FOOD : the finest vegetarian fare ( not to mention the sweet tooth . . . yep, this one right here, it is made entirely of sugar! )
The six things I could never do without
The Beauty of Melancholy
The Ideal of Justice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
you can travel pretty light when you are alone, but then, you ARE alone

gratitude . . . harmony . . . the process

how to live more simply and more richly ( the two are NOT mutually exclusive )

Mushin - the art of being artless.

and this algorithm . . . worse mannered?! you could not BE more incorrect! My manners, like my posture, are impeccable. ;-P
On a typical Friday night I am
either out or at home, heh heh . . .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
those Security Check 'words' by reCAPTCHA are becoming increasingly more difficult to do ;-O!

I find the concept of 'dating' to be weird.

I have not watched 'The Wire' and don't plan to . . . and i'll probably still live a fulfilled and meaningful life ;->.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
we might have something in common < or not > or something piques your interest . . . and/or you'd like to kill some time . . .
grow to know me, i will be open.

currently looking for adventure partners .

Pilobolus's summer run at the Joyce .

to partake with me in the loads of things to do in our environs.
and other spontaneous flights of fancy . . .

your turn.

- Q