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Zen_gineer

35 M Cincinnati, OH

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:01pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Indian, Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Some friends said to try OK, so here I am, and before I sound too much like I'm in denial for looking on here, I will say I have met some very interesting people online before, but this site is new to me.

*WARNING*
If you have half-naked pictures of yourself on here, or skirts up to your crotch, I'm sorry, but I'm not interested. I mean can't we leave something for the imagination ladies?

A little about my self:

I was blessed with the most beautiful 5 y/o on the planet; whom I have 50% custody of, and my life happily revolves around him.

I'm from a very diverse lineage consisting of African American, Irish, Native American, and possibly Polish (I'm still learning about it). Half of my family is white so I don't discriminate any race, and I expect the same from the special woman that I find.

My son is bi-racial, and I was brought up with the notion that if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it all. So for the few gals out there that responded to my greetings with "I don't date n*ggers", or "Stop messing with white women", I'll be smiling when Karma kindly knocks on your door.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a motivated mechanical engineering student pursuing my BS with a love for art, design, and function.

My grandfather was a tinkerer and pilot, and it all rubbed off on me. I love creating and dissecting things just to see what makes them tick.

I've studied aircraft since I was 6. I used to fly small planes, but have not had the time to get current since I moved back to the country. Yet another thing to look forward to.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at listening, and adapting to any place, person, or thing. I can roll with just about anything if it interests me.

I also have the uncanny ability to make friends EVERYWHERE, so traveling my favorite past time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I get the "Dude you look like Lenny Kravitz" thing a lot, especially when my hair is long, I don't know if this is proof that people here don't see black guys with afro's often or what, because Lenny looks waaaaaaaaaayyy better than me. (I'm sure the ladies will agree)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love nature, traveling (Norway is my favorite place on earth!!), camping, hiking, snorkeling, basically if it's outside....you don't have to ask for me to go ;-)

I love to stay fit. I bike, box, and weight train about 3-5 days, so I'm looking for a lady who takes care of her self!

I love motion, Driving (I used to race autocross ITB class), Biking (I bike to work daily), Flying (I grew up with aviation), boating (lived in the Caribbean for 3 years), and biking....Yeah I know I said it already, but I love to bike ;-)

I love art, Photography (I shoot often, NIKON FOR LIFE!!!), Film (Wes Anderson, Jim Jarmusch, the Cohen Brothers), Tattoos (I have a couple and will get more), and I'm a music junkie (Hendrix, Radiohead, Miles Davis, The Walkmen, The Decemberist, Fela Kuti, Bob Dylan, The Deftones, Soundgarden, Ella Fitzgerald, Lead Belly, are just the tip of the iceberg), and of course poetry (I've even been known to write some myself) here's an excerpt from one of my favs....

“I surrendered my beliefs
and found myself at the tree of life
injecting my story into the veins of leaves
only to find that stories like forests
are subject to seasons”
? Saul Williams, ," said the shotgun to the head

I love technology, I follow it daily, being in the engineering field it's not only my job, but my passion. Seeing advancements we make everyday in society both amazes and worries me. While the capabilities that we gain everyday via technology continuously give me hope for humanity, the separation that the same technology creates between us as people concerns me............That aside I LOVE MY NEW TABLET!!

I love humor......If you don't, please don't write, just go find something to make you laugh...trust me.....you need it!

I love all of these things, and they really define the person I am, but they are simply fractional compared to the love that I have for my son!
If you have a problem dating someone with a child then please don't waste my time.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Son
2. The Sun
3. Music
4. My eyeballs ( I love natural beauty)
5. Travel
6. Adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why this city seems so culturally segregated, and fear driven. But honestly I try not to think about this city so much, it can be a downer.

I love to think about the universe, and sit on my rooftop and look at the stars. I love observatories!
On a typical Friday night I am
If I have my Man-Cub, we usually have our traditional "Boston Market, and a Movie" night. It's something we started years ago, and I'll try to keep going till he's pushing me in a wheelchair.

If I'm Man-Cub free, then out with tha' dudes!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Apparently while I was at a car show one year in Detroit, some salesman at the Lamborghini booth thought I was someone famous, and let me in the private kiosk to check out some cars (right in front of 5,000 people). Not to be outdone, the Ferrari grabbed me right as stepped out of Lambo's area, and then Bentley, and Aston Martin, and so on, and so on......Got some serious VIP treatment that day all for simply wearing sunglasses!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I'm looking for an honest, independent woman who knows what she wants in life, but understands that she doesn't have to be manipulative or deceitful to get it. I'm not even going to BS here ladies, I'm here for a serious relationship, a woman that I can marry eventually. I'm not one of these boys here for booty or to comment on your "Pre-Club" photos. I'm man who's looking to further complete a woman, and fulfill her remaining needs and desires. Notice how I said "further" and "remaining", because the only person that start that journey of completion and attaining your needs is yourself. I'm from a family of working parents, so I respect the working woman and her strength.

I love traveling, road trips (with or without my son), concerts, and just raw adventure, but I also know that curling up into a human pretzel with that special lady can be better than so many things....

If you have any other questions please feel free to exchange some verbs and nouns with me

Cheers

"Let all men know how empty and worthless is the power of kings, for there is none worthy of the name, but He whom heaven, earth, and sea obey by eternal laws." - King Cnut