I am a good person. Not great mind you, but honestly good. I try to be nice and noble, but I compromise myself from time to time. Intelligence, a dash of creativity, and some luck has gotten me this far. I'm genuine and loyal to a fault. Sometime it may seem that I don't care, but I have just found that there are only a few things I need or want in life. I'm happy most of the time and try to spread the feeling as best I can. Unfortunately, I don't quite know how to go about it. I'm not the life of the party, more like the couch of the friendly night-in.

I don't have much experience with social situations. I avoided parties when I was younger due to lack of connections and funds. I guess I was also afraid of getting caught. Now that I have the funds, age, and occasional invites I just find myself frustrated. To be honest, it's because I don't seem to get attention and when I do try to join in it seems a bit forced. I don't want to be "that guy". This when I usually find a quiet spot or simply excuse myself.

I'm a good listener by nature and I can usually find something to say. I'm not easily offended, but I do get short when I'm tired. If I'm comfortable I'll talk about anything.
I'm engaged to lathnes, who has been trying to find me ladies since before we started dating.

I'm looking to become a graphic designer/artist someday, but for now customer service pays the bills. Now that I'm out of college, I'm trying to balance the limited time I have with interests that will fit in my schedule and means. Right now that has lead to spending a lot of time online with my fiancée. I'd like to get out and meet more people, but other than my gaming group and work I don't know where to find social interaction. I'm trying to get back into the SCA and just hanging out with friends of friends. So far, so good.

massage, trivia, board games, graphic design, listening, being intuitive, picking up new skills, relaxing, intimacy, abstract and philosophical conversation, cuddling , tolerance and forgiving.

My glasses and beard. I've started shaving my head from time to time as well.

I read a lot of scifi/fantasy, some historical, a bit of nonfiction. My favorites are Stranger in a Strange Land, Terry Pratchett, and RPG Source books.

I love comedies but sometimes I'm just more in a mood for something serious. Kill Bill is good, especially the music. Superbad has a great style to it as well. What Dreams May Come still gets a tear out of me. Lucky number S7evin was surprising. I also like scifi/fantasy and some cartoons including anime.

I enjoy a good song no matter the genre. I like Fastball, Depeche Mode, Queen, AC/DC, Alanis Morisette, Bare Naked Ladies, Radiohead, Beastie Boys, Gnarls Barkley and soundtracks.

I like bbq ribs, rice, brats, steak, sesame chicken, almond chicken, and pizza.

My computer, a good book to read, the sun, an internet connection, my dice, and love.

What do I really want? I want to be happy and make those dear to me happy as well. What do I really need to be happy? Lately I've been trying to get rid of a lot of the cargo that I don't really need.

What am I really looking to gain from polyamory ? I'm not just in it for sex. I want to make people happy, to share warmth and acceptance, and to receive the same in return. I want to grow closer.

I don't want to feel weird for being me.

Playing DnD at my friends house, traveling to family events, and sleeping.

I enjoy cuddling and massages. I'm also very self conscious about approaching new people even though I spend all day talking to people at work.

Honestly anyone is welcome to message me here, it would make my visits to the site more appealing to have some connections here. The people I'd most like to here from are people interested in similar things or living in the same region. Online friends can be a good resource to have.