I like to cuddle and give massages more than sex. This is what I've found over the course of the last few years. Sex can be great and fulfilling, but being able to relax with someone and just be, or  helping them relax seems to make me happiest. This is what I'm looking for in a lady. I want to find someone who likes just being together and cuddling. Someone comfortable enough with me that I don't have to worry about my hand brushing their bust when I hold them or feel embarrassed when I get a bit excited at their closeness. There are far too many people out there that would be much happier with a good cuddle and back rub. I hope to be able to share my cuddliness and relaxing hands with more people in my life.  

I'm very happy with my girlfriend. She is the woman I see myself with for the long haul. She's attractive, smart, and understands me. I can be more myself around her than I've ever been before. She has shown me that I am a great guy that any woman would be lucky to have.

The thing is that while I enjoy doing things for her, I'm still drawn to do things for other women as well. I'm attracted to other women, but certainly not instead of my girlfriend. It's more like I want to share the love as they say. Intimacy is a precious thing, but it isn't something that should be hidden away. Love isn't finite. Sex isn't shameful. Both bring joy when handled correctly. I say Joy to the World.