Find better matches with our advanced matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


28 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 12
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Strictly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
A note: For IMs and messaging in general, please be warned that I am something of a grammar fascist. Also, strike up a conversation, will ya? (I don't have time to respond to "hi"-only messages.)

My personal philosophy- insofar as I have one, and insofar as I understand anything about philosophy (which I rather don't)- is that this is the only life I am going to have, and I should do things that please me. That includes really considering the reasons behind doing things that don't please me. Practical hedonism?

Continuing with the hedonistic theme, travel is something I love to do; I'm a museum-type traveler. Car camping, cafes, historical venues are all in my repertoire; I love cities, and I love rural (and I don't mind wilderness, as long as I'm only passing through). I consider myself pretty well-traveled, and would love to become even-better-traveled: I've been to France, England, Jamaica, China, Antarctica, plus all over North America. I wish I were more adventurous, though.
I’m really good at
Sounding like I know more about a topic than I actually do; flights of fancy; crafts; derailing my own train of thought ("...What was I just talking about?"); list-making. I'm also good at vocabulary! And Pictionary!

Seriously. You'll want to be on my team for Pictionary.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'll be honest: visually, people notice that I am what a polite person would call "rotund," "voluptuous" or if they were feeling particularly wordy, "zaftig."

If you saw me on a bus, you'd probably notice that I was knitting. I am a fiber-craft junkie.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a. I love books. (See below, see above, see my crammed bookshelves.) My genre of choice is Fantasy, though it's not too hard to get me to read other things.
I'm currently reading: "Just an Ordinary Day" by Shirley Jackson.
Some of my favorite authors: Pratchett, Butcher, McKillip, Nix, Jackson, Arthur Conan Doyle, Nina Kiriki Hoffman, Margaret Frazer, Jean Johnson, Ysabeau Wilce.

b. My all-time favorites are Willow and Conan the Barbarian. To round it out, my lesser favorites (is that an oxymoron?) are Galaxy Quest, V for Vendetta, The Fifth Element, Back to the Future, Children of Men, Stranger than Fiction, Atanarjuat: the Fast Runner, The Fall, and Clue. (There are a lot of movies I've loved, though.)

c. I will happily watch any PBS or BBC murder mystery (and cop shows from other channels, too, if they catch my fancy), any rendition of Sherlock Holmes (Jeremy Brett is the best), and a slew of other clever shows.

d. I love all kinds of music, and I usually listen to one artist or group until I can no longer stand them. Recent enjoyment provided by: Zoe Keating, the Wailin' Jennys, and Howard Shore.

e. Ah, food. Can't really go wrong there; so much of it is delicious. However, I have a rather plebeian palate, so I'm often texture-oriented when in comes to nuance; foods I don't like are invariably so because of their texture.
The six things I could never do without
-Pen and paper.
-Being able to travel away from- and return to- San Francisco.
-Corrective lenses. (I'd be naturally selected right out of the gene pool with this terrible eyesight, especially if sabertooth tigers still existed.)
-Electricity. (It powers almost all my favorite things, and it powers me!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Crafting, scheming, world-building
On a typical Friday night I am
Holed up at home. Atypical Friday nights generally involve dinner and a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am better at constructing an interesting sentence than an interesting story.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you have something clever to say.
you have a burning question no other can answer.
you know of a local Pictionary tournament.
you are not a stranger to orthography.