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24 M Bethel, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:04am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm originally from the land of enchantment (yes I'll make you look that one up). Yes, it IS a state, and YES, in the USA.
But honestly I knew a kid who had MEXICO on his birth certificate. Eventually he was wrongly deported. Now he lives in Juarez. Or... maybe I just made that all up.

I've traveled some; lived abroad, worked for peanuts, volunteered internationally, taught Yoga to classes of hundreds, backpacked through Africa, drank my way through Asia, got caught in Egyptian sandstorms, survived off giant coconuts for days, muddled my way through countries without speaking their languages, met presidents and been shot at in revolutions. And I've still only been to something like 5 states...

I'm passionate about languages, politics, food, happiness, the Egyptian mau I stole, finding that balance between dandy and hipster, laughing at hipsters who refuse to accept their own conformity, and proving that borders are only as real as we make them.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've always been a writer,
now an aspiring actor

I play with the idea of going to school, but then I think, "wait, maybe I should just go to Berlin for a while..."

... I have a hard time buckling down
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not eating breakfast until noon time
I am a serial procrastinator

Le Tigre
The first things people usually notice about me
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Harriet. Harry-ette. Hard-hearted harbinger of haggis. Beautiful, bemuse-ed, bellicose butcher. Un-trust... ing. Un-know... ing. Un-love... ed? "He wants you back," he screamed into the night air like a fireman going to a window that has no fire... except the passion of his heart. I am lonely. It's really hard. This poem... sucks?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Grass. Camus. Assadi. Bellows. Conference of Birds is a beautiful book. I try to read often, but I haven't touched much fiction in a while. I've been meaning to pick something light up, but I'm caught up in trying to be the youngest person to read Jung's collected works for no apparent reason.
L'auberge Espagnole. Russian Dolls. Beginners. A streetcar Named Desire. Apocalypse Now. Bunuel. Anything Anderson.
Mad Men. Downton Abbey. Inbetweeners. It's always sunny. Louie. Game of Thrones. House of Cards.
David Keller. Leonard Cohen. David Bowie. The Doors. The Stranglers. Nina Simone. Nick Drake. MIA. Donovan. Alpha Blondy. Kings of Convenience.
Thai, Vietnamese, Japanese, Indian, Lebanese, French, Italian,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Soup dumplings
Acai pulp
Coconut water
Wine and cheese (these are not separate things)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I can wear a suit to that occasion.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sulking about the suit thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Secretly I wish Adam Driver and I were on nickname basis
You should message me if
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You know what a jammy dodger is.