To save you having to read the whole thing, if i have messaged you it is probably to pay you a compliment. I hardy ever message people now hoping for a reply because some of the replies have been somewhat derogatory, if not down right rude and wholly unnecessary. Some, and by no means all, women appear to have specific shopping lists that need to be adhered to. Good luck. I gave up dreaming a long time ago. To those of you genuinely seeking friends, colleagues or even partners, feel free to read on. I like socializing and work to many hours and don't get out as often as i should. Am in Management in the working world and this sometimes gets taken home for want of anything better to do. Tend to deal in black and white - to much applied logic i suppose. But some think I have the best job ever running a sweet manufacturing business. Bit of a Trekky, (would give anything to go into space), make models to pass away the hours and spend far to much time on the computer

I am a gentleman when it comes to the ladies. Open the doors, move the chair, buying flowers, making my arm available. My friends may or may not say more but these are my words - I am looking, in an ideal world, for my soulmate, my friend and also my lover. So if you are out there........

I am fit, willing, and able, I think

I have just come through the worse 3 years imaginable - if it could go wrong it did. But i have made it. I am rebuilding, starting again, being happy and looking to the future what ever it may bring

Crisis. I don't panic or fluster and thrive under pressure.Bring it on

Depends - if they know me for some really obscure reason it is nearly always my hands.... allegedly. If they don't I am a total enigma

Films such as the Shawshank Redemption, Green Mile, Ghost,Gladiator and a lot of sci fi stuff. Horrors like Se7en and will sit through most of the old 4 hour epics.

Books - anything that is factual. Tend not to read paperbacks etc - just wait til the film comes out.

The odd one is music - I like nearly everything from the Classics through Jazz to heavy rock and pop - It all depends on the mood I am in - music inspires, enhances or just helps remember when............

Sport - F1....Nothing better than a weekend away at Silverstone in July.............except going away with someone to Silverstone in July

But absolute no no's.....soaps and so called reality TV shows.

My mobile to keep in touch with my kids and friends
My laptop to keep in touch with the rest of the world
My fotos of days gone by
My memory stick
My mind, is that 6. Oh no, 1 to go.
All my faculties

What if?.........or how about.?.......or should I.?......or they didn't, did they?......or what would I do if I was in charge of it all.?.........or why do the mean and inconsiderate always fair better than those who give a damn??

Out with friends from the office or home alone with a bottle of wine or on here or asleep or working........so much choice

That would be telling .................and wouldn't be private any more

You are in the least bit possibly interested in any of the words i have written or just feel like it or are bored or at a loose end or having nothing better to do or are just testing the messaging system - any reason will do - honest..