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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 19–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:36pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of two-year college
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm an odditiy of serious introspection with a penchant for feeling like a round peg in a square hole or a chameleon blending into a crowd of cats and dogs. I try to see the logic in both sides of an argument and find the truth in the middle. My humor is dry, punny, and literal. My interests are simple and fairly plain.

I match fairly well with the characteristics of the INTJ type. "Personal relationships, particularly romantic ones, can be the INTJ's Achilles heel ... This happens in part because many INTJs do not readily grasp the social rituals ... Perhaps the most fundamental problem, however, is that INTJs really want people to make sense."
What I’m doing with my life
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I was a very good programmer but I feel that I've hit a wall in that career path. I've decided to switch things up by trying to write a novel, start making an indie game, and am thinking about teach programming design and application architecture. I'm also going to try doing more casual traveling again.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Things with a Science Fiction or Fantasy spin are exciting finds, whether as books, movies, or games.

Books: Honor Harrington by David Weber; The Last Herald-Mage by Mercedes Lackey; Harry Potter by J.K. Rowling.

Movies & Shows: (a sampling of 5-star ratings from Netflix) Sister Act; Shrek; Stargate; Ben 10; Spider-Man; Castle in the Sky; Monsters, Inc; Bones; Ghost in the Shell; Men in Black; Star Trek (TNG, Voyager, DS-9); Rush Hour; Murder, She Wrote; Horatio Hornblower; Iron Man.

Music: Pop, Rock, Electronic, Dance, Vocal, Classical, Nightcore, etc. I'll even listen to some country from time to time, though it's uncommon. The only types I mostly dislike are Rap and Metal.

Food: It's all about the variety, whether Ethiopian, Thai, Chinese, Japanese, American, or other cuisines. I don't have any food allergies but light on the celery and onions please.

Games: Batman Arkham, Broforce, Mercenary Kings, Borderlands, Resident Evil, FTL, Civilization, Age of Empires (there's some nostalgia for you), and more. Co-op is at the top of my list. [See: Steam Profile]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* Integrity & Trust
* Strong Principles of Equality & Balance
* Internet / Phone / Computer
* Peppermint Mocha or Smoothies
* Cafes
* Variety
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why sex and alcohol are the primary motivators of social interaction in today's society, particularly in the stereotypical homosexual lifestyle. It's a motivator that eludes me as when I see an attractive guy, whether fully clothed or completely naked, my first thought is "He's cute" not "I want to have sex with him".
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying warm indoors playing games, watching videos, or browsing Reddit. Going out to eat, people watching at a cafe, or a walk around the neighborhood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Outgoing / Outdoors people are intimidating. I don't have the kind of energy it takes to keep up with someone who wants to go camping, hiking, or partying all the time. I do need to get out of the apartment at least once a day and out of the neighborhood from time to time.
You should message me if
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You can tell me why we would and wouldn't get along.

To be frank I don't know what I expect from here. I'm not looking for casual sex, "the one", or drinking buddies. Someone to play games with, grab brunch, and talk about programming, life, or compare writing notes would be nice.