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28 M Federal Way, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 19–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:03pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If I were a character in a role-playing game I would be somewhere on the Neutral scale with a leaning toward Good and an emphasis on Lawful and a dash of Chaotic. Basically mix any combination of "Not Evil" and stir.

I am a simple, straight-forward, and analytical alien. I like the oxford comma. I don't believe in generalizations or stereotypes but find labels to be a great way to help convey intent or meaning.

I grew up under a rock in a cave in the middle of nowhere out in the boonies. We can co-op life and level up faster:

Ask me about my past, my present, or future. No question is out of the question. I like getting asked questions about who I am and I like to ask others what their story is. I think sharing is one of the better ways of improving and discovering new interests. I want to know more about you and your interests.

What I'm trying to say with the first paragraph is covering multiple things at once.
* (neutral) My decisions and emotions aren't based on heartstrings
* (emphasis on lawful) I'm very mindful of following the rules, within reason
* (dash of chaotic) My actions and views often strike others as strange
* (leaning toward good) Yet I still try to what is best for others
* (mix "Not Evil") "There may not be an evil bone in my body"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Divergent thinking, logic, and application programming. They tend to go hand-in-hand, but they're also quite useful in other aspects of life as well. I like to find a complex situation, boil it down to its essentials, and then find a simple solution that meets all the requirements.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My facial hair confuses them. That's okay; it confuses me too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Things with a Science Fiction or Fantasy spin are exciting finds, whether as books, movies, or games.

Books: Honor Harrington by David Weber; The Last Herald-Mage by Mercedes Lackey; Harry Potter by J.K. Rowling.

Movies & Shows: (a sampling of 5-star ratings from Netflix) Sister Act; Shrek; Stargate; Ben 10; Spider-Man; Castle in the Sky; Monsters, Inc; Bones; Ghost in the Shell; Men in Black; Star Trek (TNG, Voyager, DS-9); Rush Hour; Murder, She Wrote; Horatio Hornblower; Iron Man.
Am I the only person who dislikes Family Guy? Seems like it sometimes.

Music: Pop, Rock, Electronic, Dance, Vocal, Classical, etc. I'll even listen to some country from time to time, though it's uncommon. The only types I distinctly dislike are Rap and Metal.

Food: It's all about the variety, whether Ethiopian, Thai, Chinese, Japanese, American, or other cuisines. I don't have any food allergies but light on the celery and onions please.

Games: Batman Arkham, Don't Starve, Borderlands, Payday, Resident Evil, FTL, Civilization, Age of Empires (there's some nostalgia for you), and more. Co-op is also at the top of my list. [See: Steam Profile]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Most of my sections are verbose so I'll try some brevity here.
* Internet / Phone / Computer
* Smoothies
* Public Transit
* Cafes
* Conversation
* Variety
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What path I want to take with my life.

I've done software development almost all my life and am looking for something more fulfilling. Don't get me wrong! I still love doing software development but finding a place that lets me do my job has been very difficult (ugh, politics).

Some of the things I'm thinking about are:
* Game Development
* Writing (Sci-fi/Fantasy)
* Teaching (CompSci)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often playing co-op games online with a friend. A few of our recent/staple ones include Portal 2, Left 4 Dead 2, Beat Hazard, Risk of Rain, and Saints Row IV.

I've recently become a regular of Wildstar. I'm finding it quite intriguing and fun, especially for the housing aspect. I've made a treehouse with a pillow pile area that looks like something that would be neat to have in person too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm polyamorous, wish there were more good gay romantic movies, have a preferred sexual position of "Other", like to cuddle and be affectionate, and ... Well, okay, none of those are actually private at all.

Let's talk about polyamory and how it relates to me. I'm open to more than one date, boyfriend, partner, or significant other at the same time as long as all individuals involved are aware and informed to their level of comfort. Polyamory is not an excuse to cheat and I'm not looking to have random hookups or 'just sex' on the side, nor am I looking for people who are. I understand this isn't for everyone and won't try to talk anyone into it, though feel free to ask questions. The poly mantra is "communication, communication, communication" and is key to making any relationship work.
You should message me if
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* Looking for casual co-op partner for games like Portal 2, Borderlands 2, Mario Kart, Smash Brothers, Mario Party, ...
* Would like to get out and share an event, like going to the Seattle Symphony or walking along the water front or through a park.
* Have an interest in learning ballroom and/or swing dance together.

Or just want to grab coffee/tea and talk about computers, work, games, or even just the weather. Casual conversations are great.