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Zingara_Grotto

33 F New Albany, IN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:56pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Often
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a polyamorous, heavily tattooed, ceremonial magician, Goth chick/geek chick, who runs her own business.
Lets tackle “religion” first shall we. Now before you get all up in arms about magick, or start envisioning Harry Potter let’s get a few things straight. I don’t follow the dictates of mainstream religion. I don’t sacrifice little animals. I am not in any way, shape, or form Wiccan. I actually don’t believe in God, or even picture God in the sense most people do. I use the imagery of Gods and Goddesses to place myself into a different mindset. It’s called suspension of disbelief. It's kind of like what you would do when watching a good movie. It is a very useful tool for self evaluation. I lean more towards the use of Egyptian deities for multiple reasons that I will go into later if you ask. If you would like to learn more about this subject, feel free to Google Thelema, Ordo Templi Orientis, and the Kemetic religion. Throw in some philosophy and a deep love for understanding culture. Then you might have a starting point.

I also live a open poly lifestyle, poly meaning polyamorous to those who didn't know. I have a wonderfully secure and loving relationship with a beautiful man. We hide nothing from each other and live peacefully together with our four cats. We have a typical relationship outside of the fact that we don’t believe in monogamy. We have rules we have set up on behavior in this matter of dating/playing others (by play I mean casual sex). We openly discuss everything, and we have no jealousy. I personally believe that no one person can ever encompass all of that which I love. I refuse to live the modern rut of serial monogamy, and cheating. We are open and honest at all times; lies are where the hurt starts. I do not own him nor does he own me. We are both complete, and stable functioning adults that prefer each other’s company. He is free to have casual sex with, or date whomever else he wishes, as may I. This works for us and many others like us. Do some research before looking down upon us.

I run my own business selling handmade jewelry, art, and crafts. Basically people buy jewelry. Jewelry sales help to fund the paintings, and such I use to keep myself sane. Of course all of my art is for sale, unfortunately most people don’t buy art. I think the problem lies in the inability of most people to understand the worth in a painting, or sculpture. People see a canvas with a pretty picture, they fail to recognize the hours of thought and labor that goes into said pretty picture.

When I say heavily tattooed I mean it, I have 20 beautiful pieces and am planning more. I am actually in the process of planning a ¾ sleeve on each arm. The left arm will be images of life, and the right arm will be images of death. My artist is exceptionally talented and I find myself very lucky to have met him. Before you ask, yes it hurt like hell on every last piece, but a few did hurt more than others. I also detest the question “Are you not afraid you will regret those choices in 20-30 years”; HELL NO I will not! Each and every piece on my body is a well thought out piece with layers of meaning to me, and my life. I’m an artist; my body is a canvas to show off my ideas through another talented artist’s medium. I love my ink, and will never regret my choices. I have made many “bad” choices in my life; I have regretted not a single one. Every choice is a chance to learn and evolve. I can also say proudly that not a single one of those “bad choices” involved alterations to my body.
I am an individual who is passionate about everything I love. Who prefers to look at the world through her own eyes, not the tinted views of others. I make no apologies for my views or opinions, nor will I tolerate stupidity. There is a drastic difference between ignorance and stupidity in my book. Ignorance is lack of knowledge, stupidity is refusal of knowledge.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a full time college student with very little time on my hands. What little time I do have I like to spend out with friends, or my fiancee, doing something. I'm also ALWAYS up for meeting up for coffee. It gives me a break from studying like a crazy person.
I’m really good at
Everything I put my mind to, except the violin. No matter how hard I try, I still suck. Oh well I enjoy it even if I am not good at it.
The first things people usually notice about me
My ink, my bald head, or my opinionated nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite movie - A Clockwork Orange
Favorite musical artist would have to be DIO. I love everything Ronnie James did. I listen to a bit of everything but my base is rock and metal.
On food it is easier to list what I do not eat. I do not eat liver, heart, tripe, or any other kind of awful. I have never met a brussell sprout I like ( they all tend to be Assholes to my pallet) so don't try and change my mind with your new and improved way of cooking them. I live with a chef, if he can't make me like them your chances are zero.
The six things I could never do without
Freedom, Oxygen, food, water, shelter, sleep.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Depends on the day honestly. Lately I've found myself bemused by the narrow boxes people see the world through.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to find something to do since I don't have school on the weekends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still sleep with a stuffed animal. Don't judge me.. :P
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have more than two brain cells to rub together.

If you are open minded.

If you know anything about generators. Got to stay prepped for the zombies.

If you actually have something to say, and want an intelligent conversation.

Please don't copy paste dumb shit to my inbox. I'm only interested in friends first, anything else comes after I get to know you.

Please write more than "hi" or "what's up girl" when you contact me. I'm a full time student. This means I am not on here a lot, and when I am I don't use the chat function. I read email/ messages then I carry on with my day. Something like "hi" with nothing else will probably go unanswered, mainly because I'm too busy to drag a conversation out of someone who is a one word wonder.....