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35 • Tulsa, OK • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Not at all
- Other, and laughing about it
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from two-year college
- Sales / Marketing
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English, Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)
My philosophy in life is simple; Have Fun. And that’s what I try to do. I tend to be kind of a goofball. Sure, there are plenty of times when you’ve got to be serious, and it's important to be so then. But when it's not necessary, let loose and enjoy.
I'm the 'nice guy' who always 'finishes last', but that's ok. I'm patient, and I know that being myself is what really matters. Other people come and go, but I'm stuck with me, so I want to be someone I like. If being polite, opening doors for people, saying 'please' and 'thank you', and actually caring about people means I'll always be shunted off to the perilous friend zone...ok, so that wrankles a bit, but it's better than sacrificing who I am. Just don't think that being nice means I'm a pushover. I'm nice out of choice, not a lack of spine.
I'm a cuddler. It's one of my favorite things to do. The only problem is that I'm like a big teddy bear, so cuddle buddies tend to get so comfortable they doze off. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate the fact that they feel safe enough with me to do so. But then there's no possible kissing, and that's bordering on criminal.
I'm a kisser. It's one of my favorite things to do. The only problem is...nope can't think of a problem with kissing (end segue). Kissing for fun, kissing for passion, kissing for...sport? Can you kiss for sport? I'd try it. Yeah, it's awesome.
Ok, ok, on to what I'm looking for, provided you're still reading. If you are...you rock! You should really say hi.
...in a message, not out loud. I can't hear you. Unless you're using a mic...
Actually, I'm not really sure what I'm looking for. My life has been crazy busy of late, and I'm not sure where I'm going to end up over the next couple of years. I guess I would like to meet someone who's just fun to be around. Right now I'm not looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. Don't misread that, I'm not against the idea, and if it happens, fantastic. But life has been changing rapidly for me lately and I don't expect that to change anytime soon. Change is the only constant, right?
That being said, if you like to get out, if you just like dinner and a movie, if you like to stay in and share a home cooked meal (don't worry, I can cook), I'm flexible. I'm a huge Nerd, so someone who can keep up intellectually is a big bonus. I have a wide range of interests, so chances are, we'll have plenty to talk about.
Hmm, guess I wasn't very specific in that last paragraph. Well, I'm not overly picky.
Still here? Message me and claim your 10 Million bonus points for making it all the way through. The points don't mean anything, but hey, we'll know.
I am imaginative, clever, and energetic
I also recently got a big new opportunity at work! It keeps getting betterer and betterer.
I'm also pretty good at style and design. I look at separate pieces and can visualize the completed project. People look at me like I'm crazy (insert stinger here...zing) until they see it all together. Mind you, I'm not flawless, but my record is pretty good.
Books: My favorite book is Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card with a very firm nod to The Princess Bride by William Goldman. My favorite series is The Realm of the Elderlings by Robin Hobb. I'll give an honorable mention to the incomplete (possibly forever) Wheel of Time by the late Robert Jordan.
Movies: The Princess Bride is the greatest movie ever made. I love movies, but it always comes back to that one.
Music: Oh boy, I know everybody says they like most music, but I really mean it. From classical to metal, folk to rap, main stream to indie. I'm not a big fan of country or modern pop...or stuff that's too screamy, but I do like some of it.
Food: My favorite is Italian, followed closely by Mexican/Tex-Mex. Though it's hard to beat a good burger. But I don't know if I could get by without some good ol' Southern home cookin' every once in awhile.
That IS the truncated version for me on those subjects.
Computer - Yeah, I'm a Nerd
Air Conditioning - Like you're going to argue...
Entertainment - Gotta have something to hold my interest
Car - I'm not walking all around the city
And maybe a nice MLT - Do you have to ask?
I wonder how much heat would be generated by the friction caused from Superman trying to punch someone into outer space.
Turns out...a LOT!
...you want someone who will make you say "what?" and you're really not sure why you're laughing, and that just makes you laugh harder.
...you want to talk to someone who thinks about things differently than most people.
...you want to meet someone who you can feel comfortable with; someone who will jump right into a conversation like we've known each other forever.
Or...if you just want to say "Hi" or "You're an idiot" or "Scuzzlebutt". Random messages are my favorites. Surprise me!
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