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36 Bålsta, Sweden Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Today – 9:23am
6′ 2″ (1.89m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Entertainment / Media
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Excerpt from a personality test that I think sums me up pretty nicely (according to Myers-Briggs i'm of type INFP):

"Sensitive Doers are gentle, modest and reserved persons. They cope well with everyday life and like their privacy. With their quiet, optimistic nature, they are also good, sought-after listeners and other people feel well in their company.

All in all, this type is the most likable and friendliest of all personality types. Tolerance and their regard for others distinguish their personality. They are very caring, generous and always willing to help. They are open to and interested in everything that is new or unknown to them. However, if their inner value system or their sense of justice is hurt, Sensitive Doers can suddenly and surprisingly become forceful and assertive.

Sensitive Doers enjoy the comforts life offers to the full. They are very happy in everyday life. Sensitive Doers are often gifted artists or very good craftsmen. Creativity, imagination and an especially keen perception are just a few of their strong points. Sensitive Doers are very presence-oriented; long-term planning and preparations do not appeal to them. They take life as it comes and react flexibly to daily demands. They do not like too much routine and predictability. Their talents come more to the fore when work processes are variable and there are not so many rules. Sensitive Doers like to work alone; if they are part of a team, they do not get involved in competitive or power games and prefer living and working together harmoniously and openly.

Sensitive Doers are completely satisfied with a small, close circle of friends as their need for social contacts is not very marked. Here, too, they avoid conflicts - quarrels and disputes put considerable strain on them. Sensitive Doers are often very fond of animals and are very good with small children. As partner, this type is loyal and reliable and is willing to invest a lot in a relationship. Mutual respect and tolerance are very important to Sensitive Doers. Their love of pleasure makes them a pleasant companion with whom one can experience intensive moments. They like to look after their partner with attentiveness and small gifts and are very sensitive to the partner’s needs - often more than to their own. However, should they meet the wrong person, they run the risk of being taken advantage of. They are then deeply disappointed."

Introverted Practical Emotional Spontaneous Sensitive Peace-loving Reserved Gentle Good-natured Independent Empathetic Friendly Playful Carefree Sympathetic Relaxed Quiet Modest Pleasure-loving Loyal Obliging Caring Helpful Optimistic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
That is a good question. I'm not sure I know. But I work a great deal of the time as a game developer. Lucky to be able to work with something I really like. The dream though is to be able to make a living as a indie game developer, making my own games.

Other than computers and games, I try to be a bit creative. Clay-sculpting, painting and I used to do quite a lot of drawing. As of late, i'm trying out home brewing (beer and ciders, might try wine at some point). I love to create things, I guess is the gist of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
You get good at what your passionate about, so for me that would be programming and games. On a more personal note, i'm the kind of person that keep my feet firmly planted on the ground, although my heart is in the clouds (can you even say that?). I tend to be a good listener and usually very calm. I love having conversations with depth.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hard to say since I can only see myself from my own biased perspective. But I think i'm a pretty open person that usually say what I believe, although it takes some time to get through my "shell". More introverted than extroverted. I take my time to ponder things. I crave and strive for sincerity in all things. I'd rather be hurt by the truth than to be comforted by a lie. Isn't that a quote? :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read as much as I would like, but I enjoy fantasy, sci-fi and horror books. When it comes to movies it's pretty much the same genres. Listen to industrial/metal/electronic music with few exceptions. Regarding food, since 2014 i'm vegan.

Spotify Playlist:

David Eddings Robert Jordan Christie Golden Dean Koontz H.P. Lovecraft Stephen King Anne Rice R.R. Martin

The Walking Dead Game of Thrones Breaking Bad American Horror Story Dexter Family Guy Simpsons The Big Bang Theory Seinfeld Hannibal From Dusk Till Dawn

Paradise Lost Celldweller Blue Stahli Tool Throes of Dawn Nine Inch Nails Demon Hunter The Birthday Massacre Collide Sybreed A Perfect Circle Type O Negative Katatonia Hurt Deftones Poets of the Fall Paramore Godhead Flyleaf Chimaira Kent Entwine Diablo Red In Flames Devildriver Caliban Zeromancer Soen Mesh Otep Moonspell KMFDM Lacuna Coil Kidneythieves

Interview with the Vampire Donnie Darko Alien Terminator 2 Braveheart Lord of the Rings Indie Game: The Movie Star Trek Fight Club Event Horizon The Thing The Hobbit The Matrix Absentia

World of Warcraft Diablo 3 The Walking Dead XCom Enemy Unknown Outlast Hearthstone Path of Exile Deus Ex Human Revolution Guild Wars 2 Rift Plants vs Zombies Silent Hill 2 Resident Evil 4

Music videos:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Maybe companionship, love and a peace of mind. But that is only three things. Oh well, I tried.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Think a lot about society and the world in general. All the problems we have created and how future generations are going to cope with that. Why people behave in certain ways. How we can passively accept poverty and starvation despite the fact that there is no need for it. Why one person is entitled to have a golden toilet and 7 large mansions, while others don't even have enough food for the day. These are topics that are close to my heart. I am a supporter of The Zeitgeist Movement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home. :) Probably playing games, making games, watching movies, listening to music and contemplating life or obsessively checking on my home brews. :P Sometimes I stream stuff on
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Go on and ask me instead. I DARE you! :P
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I have no specific demands. But it would probably be nice if we had something in common. Maybe you'd like to play a multiplayer game?

I can be found here:
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kik lykane Lykane#2377
steam zoulz