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37 / M / straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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Long-term dating, Short-term dating
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Often
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Dropped out of masters program
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Entertainment / Media
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I am alone, stinking, and unafraid.

My Self-Summary

my chest is a cozy nap spot;
i'm a new york homeboy, though much to my chagrin, people routinely assume i'm californian (for the record, i love california. well, at least northern CA);
sometimes i'm entirely too serious, providing future opportunity to mock and ridicule me;
i'm fairly well-versed in the nooks and crannies of nyc and game to explore the unexplored--like where the A train gets all weird out in broad channel;
i want a second home upstate and a car (and need directions);
i try to pair wine with even the most mundane of meals--tuna sandwiches and rhone whites rule my world;
i finish morning jogs in the park with celebratory iced coffee and donuts;
i actually like dancing, or at least something i pass off as dancing;
i'd like to think i'm a stand up individual;
i can throw you over my shoulder and carry you home.

What I’m doing with my life

media-related business-type-stuff for an internet company.

I’m really good at

eating, drinking, lifting heavy objects, snuggling...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

music: sic alps, psychic ills, crystal stilts, thee oh sees, brightblack morning light, nobunny, jay reatard, king khan & bbq, hercules & love affair, beats in space podcasts, jacques renault, runaway, erol alkan, optimo, old school hip-hop.

books: money; wake up, sir; the power broker; bright lights, big city; middlesex; the brief wondrous life of oscar wao; revolutionary road; a tree grows in brooklyn; the corrections; clockers; empire falls; the wind-up bird chronicle. (i seriously need to branch away from critical darling titles that everyone seems to read, and could use a few recommendations.)

not a book, but i have to read the new york times on daily basis to maintain my sanity.

food: cheese, avocados, guacamole, smoothies, meat.

wine: red, white, rose, sparkling.

The six things I could never do without

absurdity, v-neck t-shirts, western shirts, wifi, music, showers.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

way too much.

On a typical Friday night I am

preferably doing something cozy involving a good bottle of wine. weekend evenings are such a shit show, unless we're talking sunday night. this question should ask what people like to do on monday evenings.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i'm private.

You should message me if

broadly speaking, you've got it going on.