Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Dashing adventurer, fearless explorer. In general I'm awesome, and
I'm assuming you are too since you're here. Here being my profile,
not necessarily on this site in general.
I'm not cocky, but I try to temper a disproportionaly large
self-esteem with humour and self-irony.
Okay I might be a bit cocky.
Update: I'll be adding more pictures later. As I'm quite honest in
my questions and answers I prefer semi-anonymous pictures because
of my work/friends/family (you never know who's watching on the
internet!). And again, with the being cocky, I get a lot of
messages. Like you women like your message to contain more than
"hi, how r you?", so do I. Meaning I won't respond to those kind of
messages. Unless you're like my dream girl come true. Also, please
do check that we're actually compatible in some shape or form. I
don't really care about match percentages, but I've got to laugh at
those who contact me but want to wait with sex until after the
marriage. Read questions and answers.
I do not subscribe to the typical "Look for your one true love
theory" as it's emotionally unhealthy. I never go into any
interaction with the intention of "finding True Love (tm). If
something develops in a serious relationship it happens naturally
over time. And I'd probably never date someone that dislikes sex so
much, or isn't open enough about it that they take ages to figure
out if they like someone enough that they want to sleep with them
or not. For me, sexual chemistry is top priority in any sort of
relationship, be it a casual one or a more serious one.
To recap: I don't respond to short one-line messages like "How are
you" or "hi". Please stop. They're terribly boring. I don't mean to
sound mean, but I assume you haven't read anything I've written if
you can't write more than one sentence.
Please read my "Looking for:" and "You should contact me if"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Teacher, mentor and student. Night-time aritistic genius. Part-time
volunteer worker with those who have special needs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting good at things - Or rather, I'm a fast learner, and quickly
become "obsessed" if I discover a passion for something that I want
to learn. I also love teaching others, helping them improve in
whatever field of life makes them happy. In sort I'm a passionate
Physical stuff. Studied various martials arts for over two decades.
Been involved with different kinds of physical training. I also
studied massage for a few years, and learned more about it when I
lived in Asia. Worked as a PT on and off.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For books: Some eastern philosophy, psychology, physics, human
evolution, neuroscience, social evolution and interaction, that
kind of thing. Have read and still do read a lot of comic books and
graphic novels. Fantasy stuff, sci-fi. Time doesn't permit that
much reading but I try to get by Not the most narrow description
but hey, I'll probably update this. Some day.
Disclaimer: I don't really consider what books, movies or music one
likes to be indicative if someone is a good match for me or not. If
we like the same things, cool, we have something in common. If not,
you can always learn about new stuff from someone with different
tastes than you. In other words, I don't really think a long the
lines of "oh noes she likes x, CLEARLY WE'RE NOT MEANT TO
You need to be able to survive somewhat bad or dry jokes, and
Except if you like Justin Bieber. Then you're out. Sorry.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pen and paper. For sketching random stuff or just noting down
whatever I found interesting.
Caffeinated drinks. I'm a night-person.. that wakes up early. Ugh,
The sun. Living in a part of the world that has extremely long and
cold winters, the Sun is one of the thing I cherish most in
Alone time. Both work and a hectic social life means I sometime
needs a bit of "me-time" to reflect, recharge the batteries and
just be me.
A computer. I'm a nerd. Not really, but a lot of my interests and
my work kind of demands one.
Physical Activity. Interpret that as you will.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not so much the past or the future. I prefer to live life moment by
moment. Not that I don't have goals or plan stuff, but I believe
one's mind should be where you are currently at in time. Too many
people have their heads stuck in past mistakes or dreading future
events. I like to keep mind in the only place I can influence.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either relaxing after a long week or.. well, enjoying a few drinks
with friends. Possibly more than a few once it's technically
Saturday. Or anything. I like to mix things up. Life isn't
something you plan, at least not where I'm at in life right now.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm very honest. I could honestly answer just about anything. I'm
also a sucker for challenges, so if you want to ask me anything, go
ahead. Challenge accepted!. I'm an open book.
Also, I'm a Wizard.
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