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36 Durham, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:23pm
6′ 6″ (1.97m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I believe only so much can be gathered online. Face-to-face is where the real connection is made. So don’t be surprised that after a brief exchange, I suggest we meet in person.

I am comfortable being me-an often respectfully irreverent, deeply caring (to a fault), expressive, vulnerable, and dynamic person. My roommate forced me to take a personality test and it tried to encapsulate me into a terse analysis. He seemed to think it described me well – message me and we can talk further on this matter. Lucky for you, I am a Pisces – creative, compassionate, emotional, accepting – basically everything desirable in a person. I’m fortunate enough to have great friends to remind me how wonderful I am when I forget.

I am one of the easiest people in the world to talk to according to my friends, dates, and exes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Cultivating and honing my skills as a healer of multiple modalities: talk therapy, yoga, massage. I have had the unique experience of having multiple mentors teach me how to love with a wounded heart. Building a network of friends in Durham…already making great headway in that area. Would you like to be part of my group? I am learning to play the guitar. My dream is to be able to play Indigo Girls “Closer to Fine” while singing. I would also be Okay with singing “Both Sides Now” by Joni Mitchell or “Rain” by Patty Griffin-I like to set my bar high.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting to know people and providing a comfortable space for people to be themselves. I'm also good at reading people and getting a feel for compatible energies.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How extremely outrageously fantastically tall I am, how loving and compassionate I am-and probably how sensitive and naive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Bhagavad Gita, Love Medicine, How Should a Person Be
Movie: Party Girl, Best in Show, Drop Dead Gorgeous, anything with Helena Bonham Carter or Toni Colette
Music: Joni Mitchell, Sia, Ben Lienbach, , Lilly Allen, Patty Griffin, and lots more
Food: Pizza, fruit, avocado, Mediterranean, Indian, and anything sweet
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. new experiences
2. yoga/meditation
3. fantasy world where everyone gets along
4. friends
5. smiles/warmth/affection
6. Internet (can't help it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sometimes nothing at all
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting together with some friends for food and conversation or cooking dinner and hanging out with my dog.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
two words: cheesy romantic
You should message me if
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I am looking for someone who is deeply caring, considerate, honorable, sweet, good-natured, and honest.
Not really good with people who find themselves bored a lot or people who are not curious souls.