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26 M Cambridge, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:36pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am an ex particle physicist, smashing atoms at cern was fun, now I'm playing with computers, data and learning about living on my own like an adult in a new place.

I'm little on the quiet side, out of reservation rather than shyness, always interested in new things and often excitable about them, highly independent, but I like people as well.

Known for outbreaks of spontaneity as well as far fetched forward planning.

Relatively well travelled, and as such I really miss having a mountain view from my office, cambridge is pretty flat.

INTJ fits pretty well if that's your thing.
Here's me being younger and doing some fire spinning.

TL;DR: fallible but tries anyway, that and the personality bars seem to sum me up pretty well.
What I’m doing with my life
Suffering from bouts of kalopsia.
Smashing atoms. (finished now)
Asking questions with childlike candor.
Climbing rocks, cycling down muddy paths.
Eating delicious things.
Remembering that manners cost you nothing, but are worth more than gold.
Wondering why the roomba has turned it's self on at 3am and why my dreams are then filled with robots.
I’m really good at
patterns, computers, people (sometimes), cooking (generally made up stuff with plenty of spices), physics, stuff like that.
The odd bit of contact staff.
Some times I am passable at maths.
The first things people usually notice about me
Somehow, given that I have blondish hair I have a very rusty beard.

Yes I know I'm not tall, no need to tell me every time.

My father may well have been a silver back gorilla, I think some of this has passed on to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Numerous and scattered, please feed me more. Currently Steven Erikson is rocking my fictional worlds.

Music - Very varied, from eclectic and weird to thrash and most things in between.
All things radio6,
This is pretty rad.
I have a strange thing for folk metal.

Shows - adventure time, the daily show, Futurama, spaced, black books, green wing, breaking bad, anything involving the dulcet tones of Attenborough.

Films - I like explosions and science fiction, I am a bit of a studio ghibli fan, good will hunting.

Food - Home cooked, Thai, Lebanese, Indian, mostly savory. I can never say no to sushi and you can't go wrong with a good burrito.

Drinks - Ginger beer, earl grey tea, Whiskey.
The six things I could never do without
in no particular order:
A sense of wonder at the world, the thirst to know how it works, why the people in it feel the way they do. + people to share this with as we are more than brains in boxes, sharing our experiences is what life is all about.

An interesting view to get lost in, trees, stars, rolling hills and so on.

A decent pair of headphones, without them I'd go a little mad.

A large book case, full of books.

Google's spell checking. (dyslexia isn't all that fun)

Oh and my sisters, whom I may have watched a lot of Gilmore Girls with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why in an age of interconnectivity is it not possible to have a referendum on every major issue, or a form of distributed governance.

The best way to search large amounts of data and understand it in a human way.

How that as a product of patriarchal society there are places where I slip up on my ideals and how to overcome this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying the company of friends in the outside world or the brilliance of silence in my room.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was raised by hippies in the countryside and grew up with no tv, a muddy face, half a zoo in the back garden and a view that everyone should be equal.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to go exploring rockpools or for a bike ride.
Failing that, you'd like to listen whilst I read aloud, I like stories.
The idea of summer midnight bike rides appeals.
You can teach me some more fire staff (a tall order)
You can teach me some more rope work ( lots to learn)

As it says above, I'm in a thing with another person which we've decided to make open, but the casual sex box doesn't mean that I'm looking for things with no emotional content, there has to be something to it or its just not overly satisfying.