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27 M Chesterton, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an ex particle physicist, smashing atoms at cern was fun, now I'm playing with computers, cycling a bit, getting disillusioned with the working world and coming up with ideas for something I can do under my own steam.

I'm little on the quiet side, out of reservation rather than shyness, always interested in new things and often excitable about them, highly independent, but I like people as well.

Very in to equality and feminism, how it intersects with other ism's and generally only judging people on them being... them and even then who am I to judge?

Known for outbreaks of spontaneity as well as far fetched forward planning.

Relatively well traveled, and as such I really miss having a mountain view from my office, Cambridge is pretty flat.

INTJ fits pretty well if that's your thing.
Here's me being younger and doing some fire spinning.(for those on mobile that's a video link sorry )
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Suffering from bouts of kalopsia.
Smashing atoms. (finished now)
Asking questions with childlike candor.
Climbing rocks, cycling down muddy paths.
Eating delicious things.
Remembering that manners cost you nothing, but are worth more than gold.
Wondering why the roomba has turned it's self on at 3am and why my dreams are then filled with robots.
Enjoying affection and reading far too many sex blogs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
patterns, computers, people (sometimes), cooking (generally made up stuff with plenty of spices), physics, stuff like that.
The odd bit of contact staff.
Some times I am passable at maths.

Getting confused and walking around in little circle until I have worked it all out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Somehow, given that I have blondish hair I have a very rusty beard.

Yes I know I'm not tall, no need to tell me every time.

My father may well have been a silver back gorilla, I think some of this has passed on to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Numerous and scattered, please feed me more. Currently Steven Erikson is rocking my fictional worlds.

Music - Very varied, I like finding new bands... suggest me one?
All things radio6,
This is pretty rad.
I have a strange thing for folk metal.

Shows - adventure time, the daily show, Futurama, spaced, black books, green wing, breaking bad, anything involving the dulcet tones of Attenborough.

Films - I like explosions and science fiction, I am a bit of a studio ghibli fan, good will hunting.

Food - Home cooked, Thai, Lebanese, Indian, mostly savory. I can never say no to sushi and you can't go wrong with a good burrito. All these things are now being done in a vegan fashion, which makes them even tastier.

Drinks - Ginger beer, earl grey tea, Whiskey.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order:
A sense of wonder at the world, the thirst to know how it works, why the people in it feel the way they do. + people to share this with as we are more than brains in boxes, sharing our experiences fleeting or otherwise is what life is all about.

An interesting view to get lost in, trees, stars, rolling hills and so on.

A decent pair of headphones, without them I'd go a little mad.

A large book case, full of books.

Google's spell checking. (dyslexia isn't all that fun)

Oh and my sisters, whom I may have watched a lot of Gilmore Girls with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why in an age of interconnectivity is it not possible to have a referendum on every major issue, or a form of distributed governance.

The best way to search large amounts of data and understand it in a human way.

How that as a product of patriarchal society there are places where I slip up on my ideals and how to overcome this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the company of friends in the outside world or the brilliance of silence in my room.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was raised by hippies in the countryside and grew up with no tv, a muddy face, half a zoo in the back garden and a view that everyone should be equal.

I measured my height, three times and took an average of it. Since I understand well that people generally lie about these things.

My fetlife has the same name as here.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
** WTF **
I just did a search for everybody in the local area and its what 5-10 times more men than women!

So I think a good idea is to let other people send me messages rather than me send them. That way thing's won't get lost in a torrent of inbox flooding.

Oh Naïvety i forgot about you.

Anyway do write something, even a "you go first", if there is any interest in anything above of below.

You want to go exploring rockpools or for a bike ride.
Failing that, you'd like to listen whilst I read aloud, or you'd like to read to me, I like stories
The idea of summer midnight bike rides appeals.
You can teach me some more fire staff (a tall order)
You can teach me some more rope work (lots to learn).