Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Beautiful woman, mother of two amazing children, often found
walking on the path less traveled, dancing to the beat of her own
drum seeks companion to be her most dearest friend, lover and
confidant in all matters of the heart!
Forget not that the earth delights to feel your bare feet and the
winds long to play with your hair. ~Kahlil Gibron
Inviting lightness and laughter...care to join me or take me out to
enjoy a moment of fun, sharing, laughter, walk between the rain
drops and falling leaves, burying bare toes in grass or sand or
ocean breeze...top it all off with a warm cozy cup of tea, elegant
glass of wine or cocoa with marshmallows... hhmm, so many choices,
name a fave or two that suite you!
I love myself when I am laughing. ~Zora Neale Hurston
Qualities and character that are important, polarities that in the
end are supposed to be in balance right? Authentic and true,
attentive and thoughtful, strong in character and strong in self,
established and financially responsible yet able to have fun and be
light-hearted, sophisticated yet down to earth.
“In the house of lovers, the music never stops, the walls are made
of songs & the floor dances” ~Rumi
Do you embrace your imperfections, quirks and oddities...
This path of being open to love and accepting of one's self and
others as well as receiving love can be fun and full of discovery
with open compassionate communication...
I think with each relationship and person you get to know you learn
a bit more about yourself, amazing what can be reflected back to
you through the eyes of another.
Courageous in honesty and being forthcoming!
Generous, caring and giving!
Friendship, trust and understanding are all hugely important to me!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Professionally I have worked for the past 12 years at a nonprofit
community clinic as a licensed clinical social worker. Very
passionate and thankful for my job, being able to do something that
I love to do, am good at and enjoy. Intense work so not sure if
enjoy is the word but it feels right and good for me at this time
in my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Respecting and listening to others, being quiet and
Holding a generous world view, healthy moral compass and staying
true to my authentic self.
Continuing self exploration to work through and embrace those
interesting and sometimes annoying kinks.
Finally getting the hang of staying in the moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Long thick hair, cat eyes, smile at first but then...
A kindness from the heart!
Twinkle in my eye!
But what they do not see at first is my teasing adventurous
Although could be completely off mark and have no idea...maybe the
grey hair sticking straight up and wild, a pleasant scent, a
freckle...hhmm, now I am curios!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am often outside relishing nature’s gifts, any park by the water,
mountains, ocean or woods (rain or shine). Playing with my kids. I
love to play games, read and just hang out with those that are near
and dear. I also enjoy fine dining, a good movie, live performances
(music and dance-Meany Hall is the best!) and long for the day of
returning to international travel…(started by working at age 11,
age 12 was learning German so that when I was 16 I as an exchange
student in Germany and then it went from there...traveling solo
through out Eastern Europe when an Au-pair in Austria, again soloed
it thru Guatemala and Honduras (often staying with families) to
name a few.
Time is also spent on trying to keep my house from falling apart. I
can live in the mountains of Africa (Lesotho) with no running water
or electricity (Peace Corps) but this home thing is proving more
I tend to read a lot of books depicting life in other cultures,
delving into the depths of the characters' souls. I read Yoga
Journal, Psychology Today, Psychotherapy Network and National
Geographic monthly. In the past year have added to my genre of
literature to include books of a more intimate nature.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being in nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Humanity and how we are all connected. That if there was more
respect shown for all living beings: people, those in the animal
kingdom and Mother Earth we would all be in a lot better place.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It all depends on what is going on in town, what the mood is and
how the week has been. So many choices...
I like a little of this and a lot of that, I know what I like but I
also like to try new things. Could be anything from Jazz clubs,
live performances, quiet dinner at home or out, going for a evening
walk, a good movie at home curled up on the couch.
Lately, a restorative yoga class after work (have been doing yoga
for over 10 years...)…what a wonderful transition into the weekend.
This class moved to Tuesday's so Friday is now a budding adventure
or a time of ease.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
On line...well...will someday get a tattoo of a butterfly on my
right thigh...Coastal Native Artwork to bring magic and meaning to
the flight of the wings...to celebrate so many challenges faced in
ones life and the movement through them...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can feel a strong connection in a long, lovely, heart to heart
hug...tons of emotional and physical affection!
"One day someone is going to hug you so tight that all of your
broken pieces will stick back together again." Anonymous
You know those kinda hugs...just feels so right!
Holding hands on walks is enjoyable!
Willing to sometimes share a vegetarian meal (that includes
seafood). Salmon being the best by far so really a
Can handle a bit of fiestiness, spunk and mischievousness and
moments of intensity as I can be pretty passionate about life and
issues I feel strongly about...and it may come from my mostly
Italian, Irish, Jewish and Hungarian heritage :-)
Feel comfortable with "I'm sorry's", maybe not for what was said or
done but for the hurt or misunderstanding it may have caused. This
is reciprocal and I will do the same.
Here is to you and a new day, make it how you want it to be and
here is to meeting some cool people on this journey of meeting that
Best and with warm regards,
B (that be all you get for now!)
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