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45 London, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:28am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous

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My self-summary
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Own hair, own teeth, not a blood relative - come on ladies what are you waiting for??????

Ah, if only it was that easy. I feel I probably need to sell myself a bit more..... I took a scientific survey of some exes, friends, and friends' wives. Nine out of ten cats, who expressed a preference, gave good scores for: smart and funny – I had bribed them with more than a little pinot...

So I don't come with excess baggage and I'm happy with the way life's going. But the good times always go better when you've got someone to share them with: finding that perfect backstreet restaurant in an unfamiliar city; watching your new favourite band at a music festival; skiing through the trees, in untracked powder. With friends it’s always good; with the elusive Miss Right, it can be great.

So it's either internet dating, or starting my own religious cult...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
~ Working: in Consultancy
~ Writing: Finishing the 'difficult' second novel (which is what I really should be doing, instead of filling in this…), and on occasion, producing dialogue for videogames - resigned to the fact that when my teenage audience do eventually reach level 10, they are going to be more interested in the pixilated chest of the unfeasibly buxom heroine than the quality of the words...
~ Living: chalking up the good experiences
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't always have a beard
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
~ Art: buy a little, like a lot
~ Music: Reformed muso. But, there’s still a place in my heart for a muddy festival field (back to the hotel in the evening though).
~ Books: Far too little fiction for my own good. Must stop buying dense management textbooks in the mistaken belief that I can acquire their knowledge via osmosis.
~ Films: All suggestions gratefully received - I've seen some truly awful films over the past 12 months.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
They're just things - I'm thinking the religious cult will have a Buddhist theme...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
tending the flock
You should message me if
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1. You think you might look good in a wimple, and are interested in ground-floor opportunities in the faith sector - free medical, company profitshare
2. You conform to the Manic Pixie Dream Girl archetype, and want to save me from my buttoned-down corporate existence

3. You like what you read