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27 Santa Cruz, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:37am
Straight, Sapiosexual
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Working on university
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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"I can't look at myself in the mirror when I brush my teeth anymore. I just keep thinking oh god, I'm polishing my bones so people will like me while I'm here." -C. Thayer

Like most people my age, I'm 27. More specifically I am a ferociously sweet, high minded weirdo exploring consensual non-monogamy, and a sex/body positive hairy legged feminist. Also I only eat plants. ENFP. GGG. Switch.

Radical: honesty, equality, openness, expression, inclusion, leisure, and positivity.

Seeking meaningful human connection in all forms:
friends, lovers, mothers, brothers; the lot.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At UCSC learning about dead Japanese people.
Art has been very important lately.
Teaching safe sex and consent workshops.
Teaching baby boomers how to eat so they don't die.
Working on an organic farm.
Wanting for people, instead of wanting from people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding traumatic brain injuries, being a social chameleon, not acknowledging gender roles or gender binaries, pushing boundaries, treating strangers like I've know them for years, intellectual intercourse, making foods, communicating like an adult, attention to detail, being ridiculous, making people cry....laughing, Shakespearean insults, not taking things personally, open minded skepticism, and transparency.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most likely male. Impeccable wit. "You wear a lot of black". Devastatingly handsome. Very very very very funny. My diction.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Pedagogy of the Oppressed, Structure of Scientific Revolutions, Doors of Perception, Y: The Last Man, Preacher, Sex at Dawn, Leaves of Grass, The Prophet, Days of War-Nights of Love, and I-Lucifer.
Alan Watts deserves a special mention here.
Picking five favorite books is like picking the five body parts you'd most like not to lose.

Bronson, Drive, American Psycho, Cloud Atlas, Blade Runner, The Fountain, Birdman, House of Yes, Holy Mountain, Children of Men, Inception, Interstellar, Eastern Promises, Prometheus, Enter the Void, LOTR (obviously) and anything Fincher, Cronenberg, Gonzalez Inarritu, Jodorowsky, Winding Refn, Kubrick, or Studio Ghibli.

Game of Thrones and Rick & Morty.

Kendrick Lamar, Flying Lotus, BADBADNOTGOOD, AJJ, Wildlight, Shpongle, Nicolas Jaar, Tool, NIN, Gustavo Santaolalla, Fela Kuti, Outkast, James Brown, Odezsa, Polish Ambassador, Behemoth, Converge, ALT-J, Tom Waits, and Nick Cave. Plus lots of Afrobeat, Jazz, Black Metal, and Funk.

Asian food

The Last of Us
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
The yoga
Working out
Breaking the rules
Water in volume
Personal growth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Butts, tattoos, space, butts, science fact/fiction, minimalism, design, metaphysics, neuroscience, human sexuality, varieties of physics, retro-futurism, social psychology, and other deep shit.
Is it burning man yet? Is the game worth playing?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to to use a "Are you not entertained!" quote appropriately.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a morbid curiosity.
I'm a huge nerd.
When I was a kid I had an oral fixation and would put everything in my mouth; so I have a strong immune system now....which is nice.
I spent an embarrassing amount of money on pens and paper in Japan.
Yo soy Batman.
You should message me if
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You "get it".
You want to send me new music you like.
You want to discuss who has the one true rite to the Iron Throne.
You want to take my 90 minute Shavasana yoga class.
You have a proclivity towards bdsm.
You want to spend a whole day speaking in a foreign accent.
You agree that all is permissible if you scream "for science!" before you do it.
I invite you to be yourself, it is what I like.