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38 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:13am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I enjoy talking with and meeting people offline, not on facebook, not on twitter, and not tons of emails on here.

I am a mix of progressive (i.e., yoga, eating healthy, spiritual but not religious, trying any type of food that won't kill me) and old fashioned (i.e. I like doors being held for me and guys calling or arriving when they say they will).

I know this sounds a bit harsh and demanding, but it's where I am now. I have big heart, a warm and genuine personality, and I am not looking for a man to take care of me financially, but one who'd love to be a great friend and partner would be perfect.

If this amount of candor caused you to linger on my profile, shoot me a cool email and let's see what happens.

I get this question a lot so I'll answer it here. I do not have a preference on race or ethnicity but you should actually be a man. I never thought I'd have to type that on here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Searching for the perfect dessert. I think it could bring world peace.
Spending more time on my hobby so that it's no longer a hobby.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hair, smile, and my candor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows: Archer
Books: Les Mis, Watershipdown,
Movies: City of God, Death at a Funeral, Gone Girl ~ This movie scared the crap out of me for many reasons. If you've seen it and care to discuss it, let me know.
Food: Dark Chocolate, Cookies, Pizza, Mediterranean, Mexican
Music: Nuela Charles, Ella Fitzgerald, Alt-J, Etta James, Antibalas, Lana Del Rey the list and genres are endless here. It really depends on the day.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beyond family and friends I'll say
Sunny Days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do men actually ask women out without text speak and emojis?
How many times I will rewrite this profile?
Why do so many guys have profile pics with sunglasses? Witness protection?
Changing my world (marinate on that one), traveling, the next great cookie,
trying to understand the obsession with reality tv,
wondering if I like online dating,
wondering how many people are really comfortable in their own skin and how many are pretending,
wondering if people even really read this stuff or do they just look at pictures ... and it goes on again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending it with people who make me laugh
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't fold a fitted sheet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Please see above...

You are a confident nerd with a tattoo. Hey we all have a weakness. I love smart guys.

You can explain things without cliches.

You're confident, but laid back, like to smile and actually WILL go outside and see what happens.