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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:18am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have some big changes on the horizon that I am really excited about and this means I have limited time! So with the time I do have I really want to meet a man I find attractive and intellectually engaging to enjoy road trips, the opera, dive bars, the NBA and NHL playoffs, concerts at the Mid and Bottom Lounge or any other small place, cigar bars, a good bourbon or single malt and late nights on the beach. I am very serious.

I am a mix of progressive (i.e., yoga, eating healthy, spiritual but not religious, trying any type of food that won't kill me) and old fashioned (i.e. I like doors being held for me and guys calling or arriving when they say they will). So I am looking for a guy (not guys plural) with the same mindset but also easy going so we can just enjoy ourselves and let things unfold just as they should.

I get this question a lot so I'll answer it now. I do not have a preference on race or ethnicity but you should actually be a man. I never thought I'd have to type that on here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being my happy self, providing comic relief for friends and family and searching for the perfect dessert. I think it could bring world peace.
Spending more time on my hobby so that it's no longer a hobby. Damn... I'm a busy woman. Haha.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hair, smile, and my candor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows: Archer,Bob's Burgers
Books: Les Mis, Watershipdown, Count of Monte Cristo
Movies: City of God, Death at a Funeral, Gone Girl ~ This movie scared the crap out of me for many reasons. If you've seen it and care to discuss it, let me know.
Food: Dark Chocolate, Cookies, TACOS, Baba Ghanouj
Music: Nuela Charles, Ella Fitzgerald, Alt-J, Etta James, Antibalas, Lana Del Rey, Led Zeppelin, Metallica, Bach the list and genres are endless here. It really depends on the day.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beyond family and friends I'll say
Kissing I really appreciate a good kisser; they are rare.
Sunny Days
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do people have some number of emails they must exchange before meeting?
Why do all texts now have emojis or are just memes?
How many times I will rewrite this profile?
Why do so many guys have profile pics with sunglasses? Witness protection?
Changing my world (marinate on that one), traveling, the next great cookie,
trying to understand the obsession with reality tv,
wondering if I like online dating,
wondering how many people are really comfortable in their own skin and how many are pretending,
wondering if people even really read this stuff or do they just look at pictures ... and it goes on again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending it with people who make me laugh
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't fold a fitted sheet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Please see above...

You are NOT looking for penpal.

You DON'T spend all your down time catching up on TV and movies.

You are a confident nerd with a tattoo. ;-)

You can explain things without cliches.

You're laid back, like to smile and WILL go outside and see what happens. How else can you really know a person??