i am honest, up front, open, no shame really, serious, but a clown, love to laugh and make others laugh, i am easy going and real, people often are compelled to open up to me very quickly. i'm looking for someone with these same qualities, who doesn't believe in secrets, isn't afraid or too conservative. i am out in my entire life and that's something that i will not compromise. i need a woman who is very intelligent, diverse, and well rounded, who challenges me but is usually just a big kid. i want to be the same for her. i come from a big loud italian family and they are important to me, i want to find someone with similar family values to build a family with. i believe that love is forever, but not always a fairytale, love is a decision that one has to make over and over again. i love falling in love, and am not scared of it, i want to laugh, argue, love, and still be spooning and holding hands in our 70s.

i work at an engineering firm midtown, i coordinate between trades, work closely with architects and clients, i do a lot of 3d modelling and analysis, but most of what i do is dreaming

games that involve the arrangement of letters; boggle, bananagrams, scrabble, etc.

my eyes

music, art, design, chairs, urban vinyl, puzzles, computers, anything mechanical or gizmo-like, water (fresh, salt, ice, hot, bring it), rocks, grass, leaves, thunder & lightning, color, soft things, pillows, blankets, air conditioning, ice cream, espresso, i don't believe i've read an entire book since grade school, i'm a visual person, i like graphic novels, not comic books or manga, Chris Ware is a genius and a perfect example of the aesthetic i look for, i read music, art, design, & tech blogs daily

water, food, air conditioning,my car, all 160GB of my ipod, my tv

just coming up with ideas, inventions, gadgets, sculptures, objects, characters, toys...

i will admit anything, answer any question, you just have to ask, i dont lie much, but if i do and you persist, the truth will come out on the third try

youre curious