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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:19am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Hungarian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Poly, open, honest. Loves listening to music and going to gigs (in small atmospheric venues preferably), talking about love, life and emotions. Sharing connections that make you think.
Sexy times, interesting times.
Growing organic vegetables and herbs. Having time for valued and loved ones.
Working when it has a point. I’m involved in Roma education. I hate working with people who are only motivated by power. Strong people are a joy to work with though.
Reading, movies, dancing ,organic food and cooking. Good tea, wine and home made elderflower cordial, tarragon syrup and more recently elderflower champagne (only one bottle exploded!) and ginger beer
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be me
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Walking. Dancing when drunk!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hungarians notice my poor pronunciation. Other things? You tell me if we meet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books – Murakami, Sarah Waters, Camus, Angela Carter, Paul Auster, Ballard, The Ethical Slut.

Movies – Endless!

Tierra (Julio Medem),Scarlett Diva (Asia Argento), The Last Mistress (Catherine Breillat), 24 Party People, 9 Songs(Michael Winterbottom) The Royal Tenenbaums, Moonrise Kingdom etc (Wes Anderson), Andrei Rublev (Tarkovsky), Chungking Express Wong Kar-Wai), No one Knows about Persian Cats (Bahman Ghobad), The Before Trilogy (Linklater) Moon (Duncan Jones) Vi är bäst ( Lukas Moodysson )...........

Music – Even more endless!

Right now – Widowspeak, Trust, Death and Vanilla and the wonderful Czech band Dva
Hungarian bands like Kaukazus and Hangmas.
A bit of Jazz – Monk and Mingus
Roma music – Parno Graszt, Romano Drom etc
And then a few hundred others including LCD Soundsystem, Elliot Smith, The Velvet Underground, Pulp, PJ Harvey, Bartok, Lali Puna, Take it easy Hospital, Love Inks, Thurston Moore, La Femme, Junip, My Bloody Valentine,

Shows ? If this refers to TV, well not much. The Thick of it comes to mind

Food – I love cooking and creating in the kitchen. Vegetarian dishes with fresh ingredients from the market or my garden with interesting herbs and spices. Food shared with company, conversation and wine is the best way to serve it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, loved ones, fresh air, food, freedom and honesty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work (try not to!), life, love and is someone is watering my plants when I’m out of town
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends in a bar, at a concert in a small venue, watching a film, cooking and drinking wine, having fun stimulating conversations with a friend or lover, having sexy times..... or drinking wine and skyping with someone too far away to do all of the above with.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You believe that honesty makes connections/relationships stronger.
You could be just curious, happy to talk and go for a drink or if not, just to exchange words in a virtual space and see where that goes. Open to whatever a connection may bring, be it a good talk, an interesting meeting, flirting, laughs, sex if that’s what we mutually desire, or just a sharing of thoughts about life. I’m happy to explore any kind of connection that adds something to one’s life.
You should be aware that I have a polyamorous outlook on relationships and try to live by that principle. I have a long distance poly relationship with a wonderful, smart and independent woman and never hide that from anyone I meet.