35 Ridgewood, NY
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My self-summary
I'm not sure I'll ever be able to fill one of these out in such a way that actually generates any interest. In fact, I can guarantee that I am not that original so I'd much rather just wow you with my winning personality and witty banter while chatting or in person if it gets there.

Some things I want to make sure are clear:
- I am married and she knows I am on here. I selected 'Open Relationship' because that most reflects my actual status. Why OKCupid considers them completely separate is beyond me.
- I am not really looking for anything specific so anything from friends to a casual relationship to something more serious is fine. My circle of friends is pretty small and I would love to branch out and meet people I would otherwise never meet.
- I have a really hard time making the first move when initiating contact, but once there is a rapport I can definitely be charming and engaging.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am working in the exciting field of Digital Media for a for-profit education company. The people I work with are awesome and I see a definite career path ahead of me, so I am pretty happy with where I am career-wise. Outside of work I am an active partner in raising our children (twin girls) and a homebody that needs to get out more.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I tend to gravitate toward the Sci-fi and Fantasy genres but have been trying to expand my library of late. This means I have two and a half bookshelves of Lord of the Rings, Wheel of Time, Song of Ice and Fire, Dune, Isaac Asimov, and Robert Heinlein with the other half of a bookshelf being taken up by a combination of textbooks from college (why I have these still, I do not know) and a mixture of classics I read in high school. Salman Rushdie is also a favorite of mine, both because I enjoy his writing and because I admire him for his contribution to the cause of reason.

I suppose my taste in movies is similar to my taste in books, but less dominated by a single genre. I am probably as interested in watching a good documentary as I am in whatever is nominated for best picture this year and I am especially fond of the older movies I watched with my grandfather when I was younger and he was still alive. Think Casablanca, 12 Angry Men, Tora Tora Tora and you will have an idea of what I am talking about.

I watch much less TV than I used to. I mostly watch whatever is available on demand or on Netflix. This includes:
- Mad Men
- House of Cards
- Archer
- The Newsroom
- Homeland
- A surprising number of shows on the Food Network

My musical tastes are probably the hardest for me to really convey in a little text box. I enjoy listening to a wide variety of things and my preferences shift often (Hip Hop to Grime to Trap to Blues to Classical to Funk to Jazz back to Funk all in one day). Spotify has been a great way for me to explore things I would otherwise never encounter but if anyone has any suggestions or is really passionate about a type of music let me know.
You should message me if
You would like to have a conversation over dinner or drinks with no expectations other than that. I am also not interested in dating men at this time, although I am flattered at the interest.