How do you sum up the entirety of your being into a nice little attractive package?

I try to think positively, and enjoy life over worrying or creating drama. I am close to my family, and have friends that I wouldn't trade for the world. I am big into self-improvement and want to expand beyond what I am now. I frequent the gym about 4 times a week, and try to keep in shape.

When it comes to relationships I am very loyal, and try very hard to keep my partners feelings and needs in mind and try to understand and respect them. I get shy in crowd situations, or among many people I don't know but one on one or with friends I am completely open, the life of the party, and wear my heart on my sleeve.

I have a business management degree, and am now back in school getting a web design degree. I have learned html and css in my free time and really love it for some reason. I guess now is as good a time as any to tell you I am a bit of a nerd. Not in the socially awkward, can't talk to a girl way. But more like the I know what I like and am not afraid to admit it way.

I'm really looking for someone supportive. I have a lot of big ideas, and I want a lot out of life. But I'd really love to have someone there by my side through all of it. Someone who will push me to be a better person, and will grow with me.

I like all media; books, movies, video games, tv, music. My top three in each without repeating myself on the profile here are:Books- Invisible Monsters, The Wanting Seed, Catcher in the Rye. Movies- Fight Club- Amelie - Anchorman. Video Games - Shadow of the Colossus, The Next Tetris, Ratchet & Clank. TV - Buffy, The Shield, and no shit The Biggest Loser. Music - Sublime, Taking Back Sunday, eels. I enjoy painting and writing myself.

breaking predetermined dating website guide line rules. Yes.....the ladies....they love internet rebels. So under this section I think I am going to list all my favorite random things in no sense of order.

65'-66' Volkswagen Microbuses, pineapple and ham pizza from Mimo's, warm socks from the dryer, watching entire seasons of tv shows on dvd in a day, thinking you have to work and then finding out you don't, randomly helping someone with something and them appreciating it, playing with my niece or nephew and making them smile, going for walks in old downtown main streets and looking at all the random storefronts, Third Eye Blind, the smell of burgers on a grill, homestarrunner.com, stretching out in the sunshine, going bowling/golfing/frisbee-e-ing, playing in a playground at night, making a splatter picture outside and having the neighbors ask why the tree, grass, and neighborhood cat is blue, cooking with someone, The Go! Team, watching rain, the Persona video game series, swimming in hotel pools, Modest Mouse, going for midnight walks while sharing headphones with a someone, having impromptu water fights, finding crinkled twenty dollars in random jean pockets...and so on.

Well you get bonus points if you;

are romantic, like to watch the stars, aren't afraid to come to the gym with me, like to act goofy and share inside jokes, sing in the car to happy music, watch Lost, read Chuck Palahniuk books, want to be a better person, don't lie or cheat, like the band Cake, enjoy cooking, will play LittleBigPlanet with me, not get bored when I get all excited about telling you how a website works, like to make love and cuddle up all day on cold days (yeah so I'm a little mushy, what of it?).

Like to hold hands and affection, like the band Brand New, not need to go out to a bar every night, are able to talk about your feelings and express them rationally, take care of yourself physically, like animals, enjoy going for walks on warm sunny days, don't mind spending time both together and apart, don't make me listen to rap or ever go to Wild Country, like to go to the City Museum.

Can hold a conversation, don't think that my dream of hosting a positive uplifting podcast is tooo geeky(even thought it is), want to make the world a better place, recycle, are willing to try new foods,(...enjoy run on sentences...) like Futurama-Family Guy-The Simpsons, are not above making yourself look stupid to make someone smile,like to live and eat healthy, don't smoke, have a sense of humor,have read this down to this point.

You don't have to be all of these things or perfect. But if you think you might have a chance of fitting the bill then message me, wink, woo, throw your virtual panties at me -whatever just get my attention. I'd love to hear from you.