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30 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:40am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
When drinking
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Charismatic and outgoing introvert living in the folds between cringe and cool. I dig good tunes, DIY, eccentric company, weirdo fashion trends, inside jokes, and artistic integrity.
What I’m doing with my life
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Former concept designer for video games, and now art directing them.

Interests and such:
Writing music and playing house shows in Oakland, volunteering at the sf animal shelter, painting, making 8-bit games with my roommates, thrifting my secret spots all over the bay, small venue shows, making mix tapes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being grounded enough so I may have the emotional capacity to be there for the people I care about.

Not letting my happiness be contingent on an event or outcome yet to happen. I live in the now, I know what I want, and I will follow that until the end.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Timberlake inspired frosted tips, and my geisha-like eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shoegaze, no wave, dream pop, lo-fi, noise, doom, post-punk, vaporwave, post-hardcore, post black metal, post-anything really. I like it droney and heavy.

Current favs: Viet cong, pity sex, William Onyeabor (nigerian funk that's soo good.)

Swirlies, beat happening, gentle friendly, Henry's dress, unwound, polvo, whirr, throbbing gristle, slowdive, mac demarco, r stevie moore, macintosh plus, young prisms, cocteau twins, animal collective, night school, boris, no joy, diiv, sannhet, envy, mono, ariel pink, gang of four, funeral rites, weakling, not not fun etc.

Iron Giant, Royal Tenenbaums, Boyhood, Miyazaki, Mysterious skin

SOIAF, Name of the wind, Speaker for the dead, rant, Slaughterhouse five, a heartbreaking work of staggering genius, bossypants

Twin peaks, Sherlock, Black mirror, Ranma 1/2, Louie, Arrested development, Garth Marenghi's Darkplace, Xavier: Renegade Angel, adventure time, hannibal

Katamari Damacy, kingdom hearts, echo the dolphin, dragon age, diablo, streets of rage
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Small venue shows
Short-lived obsessions
My inhaler
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have houseplants instead of cats instead of children instead of friends instead of a therapist.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Shows, dinner parties, art shows, making things, writing things, binge watching good tv series, or at a bar. Idea for a cool bar: A hot shower you can drink a beer in oh wait I'll just stay home.
You should message me if
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you're kind, a little introverted, artsy, altruistic, and nerdy.

If you feel like messaging me, I'll be here, testing my feelings online.