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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:18pm
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Polish (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Looking to meet new interesting and positive people around my area, as well as hoping to find a meaningful connection + chemistry with someone.

Into food (cooking/dining out), TV, movies, video games, art and going to museums, music and going to concerts, internal martial arts, traveling, climbing, shooting pool, kayaking (L.I.C. Community Boathouse!), wandering the city, and exploring of most kinds.

I am intelligent, honest, curious, and playful
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working an intense 9-6... used to make video games... now making educational software. Enjoy going to work each day.
Games were fun but the industry is too abusive. Now I can leave work at 6 each day and have time for life :)

Practice internal martial arts regularly to stay in shape, stay sane, and to explore the mysteries of the mind-body connection.

Climb (bouldering specifically)... amazing how much fun it is... go to BKB about 2/3 time a week these days.

Learning. It's what keeps things interesting, and keeps you interested. Can't be afraid to fail...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Internal martial arts (Tai Chi, Xing I, Ba Gua)
Making Games, wirting high performance software in general
Problem Solving
Staying calm and in control.
Seeing the flip-side of things.
Being nice and honest
Being responsive and respectful
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall, glasses, nice smile, calm, easy going, nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I live in NYC (LES) so in terms of food I'm a little spoiled. NYC really does have some of the best food. Italian, Thai, Korean, Polish, Chinese, and Mediterranean are some of my favorites. Nice bottle of wine and some company will make any meal better :)

Recently after watching Food Inc I have been attempting to cook more myself and its been going well. Got sauteing down... and about to start steaming (advanced stuff I know). But hey... with good ingredients its easy

Music... well any type of rock I'm into, as well as lots of others. Some recent stuff I've been listening to: John Frusciante, Bon Iver, Gomez, G-Love, Jack Johnson, Noah and the Whale, Ratatat, Gnarls Barkley, Willy Mason, Felice Brothers, DMB, Beck, Blind Pilot, etc. I'm also a big fan of live music... especially the outdoor type.

I watch some TV and movies. For me: fantasy, sci-fi, comedy, action, adventure, anime > rest > horror, suspense, thriller. Huge fan of Hayao Miyazaki's movies. My Neighbor Totoro is my favorite (I don't buy the alternative interpretations). Food Inc recently invoked a large change in my life, I recommend you see it.

TV series.... I used to watch Heroes, Lost, Simpsons, Family Guy, FMA, Battlestar Galactica (and thought it was better than Star Trek)... etc....
More Recently... Breaking Bad, Dexter, Game of Thrones, Big Bang Theory.

Oh and TED talks rock!

Books... always liked Anais Nin, lol... LoTR, Alchemist, books on Taoism, I-Ching, the Kybalion, and then books on graphics, games, math, etc. :P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends + Family
Peace of Mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Body dynamics
How I can get a job where I could work from anywhere :)


Why people tend not to look you in the eye on the street, let alone smile.

How Beck can be a scientologist.

Food (where is my food coming from, whats in it)

How our political system got so screwed up, how its still better
than most, how it can start to change in the right direction.

How I can get out of the city more.

My next vacation.

Where else to meet girls besides OKC.

How technology gets mis-used and/or abused.

If greed will eventually doom the human race. How we can move beyond such things.

Can I climb that?

What I want from a relationship besides the obvious (or maybe not, there are some strange people on this site): love, affection, intimacy, conversation, stimulation.

Why so many people in NYC, including my own friends, are quite self-centered.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
IMA class (ba gua) after work. Then taking it easy at home or meeting some friends for drinks
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you message me I'll answer anything... lol... I'm a pretty open and honest person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The list below is delimited by OR's not AND's

You are a positive person.
Have something interesting to say.
Want to do something: live music, shows, go climbing, etc.
Actually have heard of Ba Gua or Xing I before.
Regularly find yourself in both NYC and Warsaw.
You're curious about me :)
Actually want to meet in real life :P