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37 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Monica, California

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Job
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Often described as a not-so-easily-rattled funny, sarcastic and refined British gentleman, rarely at a loss for words but I always listens first.

A chameleon at any social event who is very comfortable in his own skin. I grew up in England with a London higher education (my spelling is British English, I refuse to spell the lazy American way, yet) and a black belt in Thai-boxing (useful when needed) who has been around guns (and ranges) most of his life. Albeit the nerd in me sometimes comes out with the launch of a new Apple gadget, a conspiracy theory or a new discovery about our universe. Really enjoy intelligent company where I can have a good balanced political or philosophical debate over a ravishing Indian, Italian, Thai or Middle Eastern cuisine (I love cooking Middle Eastern food BTW). Give me extreme fitness & sports, or a night in with a movie or a board game like backgammon or chess (the game of kings).
What I’m doing with my life
I run my dream business in Santa Monica. I will tell more in person because gold diggers will be swarming like flies on an ice cream.
The first things people usually notice about me
My British accent. Smile & teeth.
The six things I could never do without
- Family
- daily burst of creativity
- Good healthy food and fruit
- Gym, cycling and hiking (lets group these as one)
- Live music / cabaret shows
- The beach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
When will aliens arrive
On a typical Friday night I am
relaxing with buddies either go-karting, cinema or playing pool. Saturday night is best for classy evenings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Being in love is the most powerful thing in the universe. "Love energy" is the fuel that makes you feel invincible and can take on all the challenges of life.

Oh, and maybe they should make a separate section for "some people" and call it: "OKstupid!!!" haha!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
I honestly could not care less if you "heard it all before" but I do not believe in sex before exclusivity, because it is against my values and religion. A smart girl will see how this emanates in my behaviour and interaction with her. Right now am selectively looking to date an intelligent AND successful girl with a lot of potential for exclusivity. Why? Because I believe you are at least somewhat sane, and hopefully you have developed the maturity and good strong communication skills (reciprocity, maturity, no phone phobia or petty childish games) to build a future with a man of caliber. I believe you are not seeking a young sugar daddy to look after you (because you spent the last decade working hard to build your life), and I believe you grasp the notion that just "wanting' to be in a relationship is simply not enough sway to be in one. Your whole setup must demonstrate you have prepared the fertile ground for such a huge undertaking. Yes emotional, mental and spiritual abundance is great (and a given), but comparatively, a mutually successful career and financial stability is a key qualifier. And because you MAY have gained plentifulness in all of these attributes, then there is a good chance you are now a flourishing version of your optimum balanced self, who has blossomed from a girl, into a real woman.

If that is you. Lets talk.