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24 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:15pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary

INFP, polyamorous, heteroflexible,
vegan, artist, optimist, pacifist, feminist, intactivist.
What I’m doing with my life
Making art about romance and the multiverse, studying art full-time, and working at a photo studio part-time.

Aside from all that: Eating a lot of bananas, playing with ferrets, reading books, telling stories, and riding skateboards. Trying to advance my discourse on feminism, gender, health, sexuality, and art.
(Suggested reading would be appreciated!!)

Oh, and learning German!
(Aber, Ich verstehe nur ein bisschen jetzt.)
I'd like to learn Spanish and Japanese as well :P
I’m really good at
Exciting and/or boring you with art theory

Board games, and video games from the 90s

Every aspect of photographic image making

Pokemon battles ( really good. We can play on Pokemon Showdown or Pokemon Online if you play too!!)

Making eye contact

Appreciating things

Writing you love poems in 140 characters or less

Kissing you during a movie in a way that makes us miss the rest of the movie
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
One Piece (Eiichiro Oda), Leaves of Grass (Walt Whitman),
Ways of Seeing (John Berger), The Defining Decade (Meg Jay),
Vagina: A New Biography (Naomi Wolf),
Sex at Dawn (Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá),
Towards a Philosophy of Photography (Vilém Flusser),
Travel Photos (Roman Signer) Sentimental Journey
(Nobuyoshi Araki), Lee Friedlander's MoMA Retrospective book,
Venus Inferred (Laura Letinsky), and a million other artist books.

One Piece, Yu Yu Hakusho, Soul Eater, Durarara!!,
Naoki Urasawa's Monster, Dragon Ball Z, FLCL.
I'm a huge sucker for shōnen anime.

Paul Baribeau, Tycho, Joanna Newsom, Nana Grizol, Bright Eyes, Yeezy, Noname Gypsy, Dengue Fever, the Cameo pandora station,
BRUUUUUUUCE, doo-wop, R&B from any decade,
and everything from the 90s (especially hip-hop and eurodance)

Food: Bananas, champagne mango, strawberries, cherries, pomegranate, sweet tamarind, Korean sweet potato, beets,
sugar cane, chana masala, pumpkin roti, cilantro

(Eiichiro Oda's One Piece is in both books and shows because it is the best story ever told.)
The six things I could never do without
Creation, love, empathy, learning, aesthetic experiences, and tomorrow
I spend a lot of time thinking about

Branding and the "Obligation to self-design"

How most modern romance movies wouldn't have a plot if the characters were just in open relationships and knew more empathic ways to communicate

How to remove violence culture from my speech and expressions
(Example: Not calling the act of making photographs a "shoot"
Not saying someone "kills it" if they excel at something)

Why does OkC desaturate my images so much?

What book should I read next?

Why does my Quickmatch number keep going up and no one is sending me messages? You people tryna date me or what??

Why is everyone on this site is so cynical about love?
This is OKCupid! Where are all the romantics??

How great is it that I'm privileged enough to own a camera and make photographs every day???

How privileged am I just to be breathing????

How awesome is life??!??!?

"This is what you shall do;
Love the earth and sun and the animals,
despise riches, give alms to every one that asks,
stand up for the stupid and crazy,
devote your income and labor to others, hate tyrants,
argue not concerning God,
have patience and indulgence toward the people,
take off your hat to nothing known or unknown
or to any man or number of men,
go freely with powerful uneducated persons
and with the young and with the mothers of families,
read these leaves in the open air
every season of every year of your life,
re-examine all you have been told
at school or church or in any book,
dismiss whatever insults your own soul,
and your very flesh shall be a great poem
and have the richest fluency not only in its words
but in the silent lines of its lips
and face and between the lashes of your eyes
and in every motion and joint of your body.”
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You like kisses
- You're into polyamory
- You're alive and you recognize how beautiful that is

And especially if:
- You want to hang out and look at/ talk about/ make art
- You want to have a Pokemon battle
- You want to ride skateboards!!

PS. I'm not one of those people who expect poetry out of an OkC message. Just say hello! :)