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25 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:31am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

INFP, heteroflexible, artist, poet

ethical non-monogamy, veganism, intersectional feminism, intactivism.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making art about romance and the multiverse.

Eating a lot of bananas, playing with ferrets, reading books, telling stories, and riding skateboards.
Trying to advance my discourse on feminism, gender, health, sexuality, and art.
(Suggested reading/lectures would be appreciated!!)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Exciting and/or boring you with art theory

Board games, and video games from the 90s


Photographic image making

Pokemon battles (We can play on PS if you play too!!)

Appreciating things

Writing you love poems in 140 characters or fewer

Kissing you during a movie in a way that makes us miss the rest of the movie
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Leaves of Grass (Walt Whitman),
All About Love (bell hooks),
The Will to Change (bell hooks),
Going Public (Boris Groys),
Towards a Philosophy of Photography (Vilém Flusser),
Understanding Comics (Scott McCloud)
Travel Photos (Roman Signer)
Sentimental Journey (Nobuyoshi Araki),
Lee Friedlander's MoMA Retrospective book,
The Ballad of Sexual Dependency (Nan Goldin),
and a million other artist books.

One Piece, Durarara!!, FLCL
I'm a sucker for shōnen anime.

Paul Baribeau, Tycho, Joanna Newsom, Nana Grizol,
Dengue Fever, Chromeo, the Cameo pandora station,
Scatman John (don't get me started),
BRUUUUUUUCE, doo-wop, R&B from any decade,
and everything from the 90s (especially eurodance)

Food: Bananas, champagne mango, concord grapes, pomegranate, Korean sweet potato, beets, pierogis,
sugar cane, chana masala, pumpkin roti, cilantro
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creation, love, empathy, learning,
aesthetic experiences, and tomorrow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What a privilege it is to be alive.
(...and all the other privileges this life has afforded me,
many of which come at the expense of others,
so I also spend time thinking what I can do to change that imbalance of privilege)

What words and expressions in the English language are embedded with violence culture, and what alternate words and expressions can I use in their stead?
(For example, not calling the act of making photographs a "shoot". Not saying someone "kills it" when they excel at something.)

Why is everyone on this site so cynical about love?
This is OkCupid!!
Where are all the romantics??

(also: images, axioms, the multiverse, and silly things.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making images!!
(And every other day/night too)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You like kisses

- You're into non-monogamy

- You're alive and you recognize how beautiful that is