Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
artist, poet, ambi-spooner
ethical polyamory, veganism,
intersectional feminism, intactivism.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Exciting and/or boring you with art theory
DJing your 90s-themed party
Writing you love poems in 140 characters or fewer
Kissing you during a movie in a way that makes us miss the rest of
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All About Love (bell hooks)
Leaves of Grass (Walt Whitman)
Nagisa (Daido Moriyama)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art, love, empathy, learning,
aesthetic experiences, and tomorrow
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why is everyone on this site so cynical about love?
This is OkCupid!!
Where are all the romantics??
(also: images, axioms, privilege the multiverse, and silly things.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
we all know how this works.
If we chat on this site/ via text message for more than a
we will: eventually stop responding to each other, never meet,
SO!! Here is my brilliant proposal!!
Here's a list of things I like to do and would gladly do with an
OkC person for a first date/hang out:
-Go to Coney Island
-Walk around Central Park/ Prospect Park
-Explore King's Highway area (see also: the Rockaways)
-Gallery hop in Chelsea/ LES/ Bowery area
(I'm mostly into photographs, but I'll gladly look at other
*Note: I am a photographer. Anything that involves strolling around
an unfamiliar environment appeals to me.
Woah!! All those things are free!! (aside from MTA costs)
Woah!! They are all safe, public, and easy to bail on mid-date if
you decide I am intolerable!!
But!! you want to have at least some kind of conversation before
you devote even a minute of your time to making plans with me. (You
and me both)
Here's a short list of things I like to discuss with people I've
- Your favorite Pokemon
(if your's is Charizard, this relationship will never work)
- A photograph(s) you saw that evoked something in you
(The less journalistic/ more personal the photograph,
the more interested I am)
- Your favorite bell hooks quotes
(Come on, if you're 90%+ matching me, you love yourself some bell
hooks. If you don't know bell hooks, she has a ton of lectures on
youtube. Listen to one the next time you go for a walk :] )
- Anything about One Piece
- What was your favorite edition of Now (That's What I Call
or you can message me with your copy and paste message.
I accept those. It's more about where the conversation goes than
where it starts. :]
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