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28 Jersey City, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 27
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
My self-summary
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Somewhere between a campfire and an art opening.
What I’m doing with my life
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Generally: Cycling/hiking/weekend road tripping and/or cooking up a storm. Engaging in some structured idiocy in Brooklyn or Manhattan on weekends.

Currently enjoying my 9-5 at a fiery little nonprofit down in financial. Definitely not your rough-and-tumble/bleeding heart mission-based org. I have an easier time talking about IPOs than NGOs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Handwriting. I write like a goddamn founding father.

Trivia. If you need an arts/lit/pop culture member for your team, hit me up. I soak up tidbits like wine at a family holiday dinner.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Red hair and sharp wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently enjoying: The Southern Reach Trilogy (yess! message me if you've read it, but no spoilers), watching Blade Runner for the Nth time, the new Sleater-Kinney Album and just about anything I can find at Dig Inn.

I can never seem to keep track of favorites. These are the first that come to mind:

Books: Angelmaker, The Stories of John Cheever, The Sisters Brothers, Snow Crash, Dune

Movies: Lawrence of Arabia, The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension, There Will Be Blood, Brazil, 8 1/2, Indiana Jones (1 & 3 only, mind you). Find me something big, wry and beautiful and I'm a happy camper.

Shows: Radiolab, This American Life, Snap Judgement, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, House of Cards. Law and Order lulls me to sleep.

Music: Tune-Yards, Neko Case, The Mountain Goats, The Dodos.

Food: Oysters, Barleywine, Sourdough, Eggplant. I eat tomatoes like apples, and daily.

Beyond that, I'm sure we can hold a conversation about all of the normal things that everyone puts on their profiles anyway. Didn't think it was necessary to list the entire AMC lineup here...

Side note: If you know what Kentucky Route Zero is, message me. I'll buy you a drink and we can geek out about how lovely it is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Cilantro.
2) A sturdy pair of boots.
3) Glasses.
4) My nalgene.
5) Maps.
6) My idiot brother. I love him to death.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I should be using coriander or marjoram, or both. How the dinosaurs died. Whether or not the cobalt throw or the saffron one will work better on the hope chest. The texture and smell of the building that I'm in. Whether I'm tasting cloves or nutmeg in this IPA.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a lovable mess.
You should message me if
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If you're a Viking.
If you're up for craft beer and frickles.
If your idea of the perfect girl is Marion Ravenwood.
If you're aggressively smart, passionate in work and life, and witty.

If you're genuinely interested, maybe send me a message longer than three words?