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28 Jersey City, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:03am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Somewhere between a campfire and an art opening.
What I’m doing with my life
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Spending my 9-5 at a fiery little nonprofit down in financial. Definitely not your rough-and-tumble/bleeding heart mission-based org. I have an easier time talking about IPOs than NGOs. It's a weird, niche job, and I'm really happy to just do and keep growing. It's.. purposeful.

Weekends generally involve the woods, a bike, a good pair of boots, potentially a museum, plenty of books and a fair amount of cooking for friends. I do love this city, but I'm usually going stir crazy by Friday and hightail it upstate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Handwriting. I write like a goddamn founding father.

Trivia. If you need an arts/lit/pop culture member for your team, hit me up. I soak up tidbits like wine at a family holiday dinner..
The first things people usually notice about me
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Red hair and sharp wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Urgh, ok fine. As of late:

Books: Snow Crash (Neal Stephenson), Angelmaker (Nick Harkaway), Cloud Atlas (David Mitchell), the Sisters Brothers (Patrick DeWitt), The Revenant (Michael Punke), Annihilation (Jeff Vandermeer). Currently reading: Station Eleven (Emily St. John Mandel)

Films: There Will Be Blood, Brazil, 8 1/2, Blade Runner, Lawrence of Arabia

Shows: (radio) Radiolab, This American Life, Snap Judgement, (tv) Peaky Blinders, House of Cards, A Bit of Fry and Laurie, Sherlock

Music: The Mountain Goats, Otis Redding, Tune-Yards, Neko Case, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Glenn Jones, Typhoon, Mother Mother, The National, Real Estate

Food: mostly all of it? Oysters, Cilantro, Sourdough, Eggplant and Burrata are the things that make my stomach happiest. A good bruschetta can make me weak in the knees.

*Side note: If you know what Kentucky Route Zero is, message me. I'll buy you a drink and we can geek out about how lovely it is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Cilantro.
2) A sturdy pair of boots.
3) Glasses.
4) My nalgene.
5) Maps.
6) My idiot brother. I love him to death.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I should be using coriander or marjoram, or both. How the dinosaurs died (I love the latest theory, and it's depressing, yet epic). Whether or not the cobalt throw or the saffron one will work better on the hope chest. The texture and smell of the building that I'm in. Whether I'm tasting cloves or nutmeg in this IPA.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a lovable mess.
You should message me if
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If your idea of the perfect girl is Marion Ravenwood;
If you're up for craft beer and frickles;
If you're a lumberjack who secretly works in digital advertising;
If you want to ride the 6 train through the abandoned City Hall stop;
If you're aggressively smart, passionate in work and life, and witty.