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28 Jersey City, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:47pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
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Somewhere between a campfire and an art opening.
What I’m doing with my life
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Generally: Cycling/hiking/weekend road tripping and/or cooking up a storm.

Weekend oscillating between farms/hiking trails and the financial district. The woods are lovely, dark and deep, but the concrete canyon is the only place where my particular job exists, so I'm a little tied to it. Aside from that, a good museum or concert is usually enough to distract me from the trees.

Currently enjoying my 9-5 at a fiery little nonprofit. Definitely not your rough-and-tumble/bleeding heart mission-based org. I have an easier time talking about IPOs than NGOs.

I'm working on baking the perfect boule of sourdough. Tips are welcome.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Handwriting. I write like a goddamn founding father.

Trivia. If you need an arts/lit/pop culture member for your team, hit me up. I soak up tidbits like wine at a family holiday dinner.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Red hair and sharp wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I can never seem to keep track of favorites. These are the first that come to mind.

Books: Angelmaker, The Stories of John Cheever, The Sisters Brothers, Snow Crash

Movies: Lawrence of Arabia, The Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension, There Will Be Blood, Brazil, 8 1/2, Indiana Jones (1 & 3 only, mind you). Find me something big, wry and beautiful and I'm a happy camper.

Shows: Radiolab, This American Life, Snap Judgement, A Bit of Fry and Laurie. Currently bingeing Hannibal. Law and Order feels like home.

Music: Tune-Yards, Neko Case, The Mountain Goats, Pavement

Food: Oysters, Barleywine, Sourdough, Eggplant. I eat tomatoes like apples, and daily. Cilantro haters need not apply.

Beyond that, I'm sure we can hold a conversation about all of the normal things that everyone puts on their profiles anyway. Didn't think it was necessary to list the entire AMC lineup here...

Sidenote: If you know what Kentucky Route Zero is, message me. I'll buy you a drink and we can geek out about how lovely it is.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I should be using coriander or marjoram, or both. How the dinosaurs died. Whether or not the cobalt throw or the saffron one will work better on the hope chest. The texture and smell of the building that I'm in. Whether I'm tasting cloves or nutmeg in this IPA.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a lovable mess.
You should message me if
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If you're a Viking.
If you're up for craft beer and frickles.
If your idea of the perfect girl is Marion Ravenwood.

If you're genuinely interested, maybe send me a message longer than three words?