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28 Jersey City, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:07pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
My self-summary
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Somewhere between a campfire and an art opening.
What I’m doing with my life
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Generally: Cycling/hiking/weekend road tripping and/or cooking up a storm. Engaging in some structured idiocy in Brooklyn or Manhattan on weekends.

Currently enjoying my 9-5 at a fiery little nonprofit down in financial. Definitely not your rough-and-tumble/bleeding heart mission-based org. I have an easier time talking about IPOs than NGOs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Handwriting. I write like a goddamn founding father.

Trivia. If you need an arts/lit/pop culture member for your team, hit me up. I soak up tidbits like wine at a family holiday dinner..
The first things people usually notice about me
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Red hair and sharp wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Let's eat some weird food, talk about some exciting books, listen to some exceptional music and watch some lovely films.

I'm more curious about what you like and why you like it. The fun is in the conversation.

However, as of late, the Southern Reach trilogy, Peaky Blinders, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, and fresh strawberries and kale salad have been on my mind.

*Side note: If you know what Kentucky Route Zero is, message me. I'll buy you a drink and we can geek out about how lovely it is.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Cilantro.
2) A sturdy pair of boots.
3) Glasses.
4) My nalgene.
5) Maps.
6) My idiot brother. I love him to death.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I should be using coriander or marjoram, or both. How the dinosaurs died (I love the latest theory, and it's depressing, yet epic). Whether or not the cobalt throw or the saffron one will work better on the hope chest. The texture and smell of the building that I'm in. Whether I'm tasting cloves or nutmeg in this IPA.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
a lovable mess.
You should message me if
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If your idea of the perfect girl is Marion Ravenwood;
If you're aggressively smart, passionate in work and life, and witty.

If you're sincere, maybe send me a message longer than three words?