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_chelsea_

29 F Mentor, OH

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:36am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Leo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've just moved back to Ohio to help care for a sick family member and am looking to connect with folks out here.

I'm looking for play partners, friends, lovers, dates, chemistry. I am poly.

I identify as a femme-ish fag; meaning im a femme exuberance of boi/masculinity and am hot for other masculine identified people! Gender can be a confusing, hot, and exciting thing, huh? i am genderqueer and am most hot for other gender non-conforming folks. I ID as queer, but chose "bisexual" because I'm into more than one gender.

I love to explore and go on adventures!
I love food -buying, growing, cooking, and eating.
I also love to go to art events/shows, bookstores/flea markets/farmers markets, craft fairs, etc. I'm also very much into attending inspiring, challenging and nourishing events, reading every Octavia Butler book ever, making my best attempts at DIY decor and crafts, appreciating how fucking beautiful the bay area is, and writing letters.

I believe in prison abolition, people having real agency in governing/determining their lives, and housing recognized as a human right. im really interested in critically examining relationships of power - especially as related to justice, liberation, and resistance to systemic forms of oppression. this happens in the streets and in the sheets for me, and helps if it does for you, too!

I also very much enjoy talking about theory and politics. I'm particularly interested in anything from, or having to do with similar topics such as; queer theory, derrick jensen, ward churchill, judith butler, judith/jack halberstam, bell hooks, feminism, octavia butler, anti-racism, eli clare, dis/ability theory, radical environmentalism, social and environmental justice, anti-capitalism, gender gender gender, and challenging narcissism/arrogance that can stem from 'politics'.

I am especially interested in meeting folks who are deeply concerned about the state of the world, but who also strive to find magick in the day-to-day. The world is a crazy fucking place, but finding a sense of communion and connection to the good stuff around us is very important.

I am especially turned on by thick butches, sassy fags, and Daddy types!

Being from a hella working class background is an important part of my identity.

I am looking for cute dates with rad queers who are very comfortable with non-monogomy. Lets swoon and be sweet to each other! handmade cards, flowers, radical poetry, outdoor adventures and heart swelling times!

I believe in honest and direct communication :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
moving to Ohio to care for my Mom and re-centering myself in a less than ideal situation
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, being silly, thinking critically, organizing in my community, making coffee, and making it through really hard shit.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My blue eyes, my bodacious booty, and the fact that you cant guess someones gender just by looking at them!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: anything by octavia butler, a language older than words, geek love, middlesex

movies: lots of dorky tv shows; xena, Gordon rasmy, bsg, and movies that make you feel good but that dont perpetuate lots of fucked up shit, and possibly secretary (but i would love to talk with you about how the role of consent affected yr feelings toward the movie)

music: hip hop, folk, lezzie music, -- an eclectic list, really. on my ipod you might find the coup, regina spektor, missy elliot, kimya dawson, tupac, Erykah Badu, etc

food!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books, sunshine, coffee, communion, community, my electric toothbrush
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the state of the world and what the fuck we're going to do about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing whatever strikes my fancy
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
uhhh... i already admitted that i watch xena. thats pretty bold.
You should message me if
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you feel what im sayin and you're genderweird