I'm looking for play partners, friends, lovers, dates, chemistry. I am poly.
I identify as a femme-ish fag; meaning im a femme exuberance of boi/masculinity and am hot for other masculine identified people! Gender can be a confusing, hot, and exciting thing, huh? i am genderqueer and am most hot for other gender non-conforming folks.
I love to explore and go on adventures!
I love food -buying, growing, cooking (or not cooking), and eating.
I also love to go to art events/shows, bookstores/flea markets/farmers markets, craft fairs, etc. I'm also very much into attending inspiring, challenging and nourishing events, reading every Octavia Butler book ever, making my best attempts at DIY decor and crafts, appreciating how fucking beautiful the bay area is, and writing letters.
I believe in prison abolition, people having real agency in governing/determining their lives, and housing recognized as a human right. im really interested in critically examining relationships of power - especially as related to justice, liberation, and resistance to systemic forms of oppression. this happens in the streets and in the sheets for me, and helps if it does for you, too!
I also very much enjoy talking about theory and politics. I'm particularly interested in anything from, or having to do with similar topics such as; queer theory, derrick jensen, ward churchill, judith butler, judith/jack halberstam, bell hooks, feminism, octavia butler, anti-racism, eli clare, dis/ability theory, radical environmentalism, social and environmental justice, anti-capitalism, gender gender gender, and challenging narcissism/arrogance that can stem from 'politics'.
I am especially interested in meeting folks who are deeply concerned about the state of the world, but who also strive to find magick in the day-to-day. The world is a crazy fucking place, but finding a sense of communion and connection to the good stuff around us is very important.
I am especially turned on by thick butches, sassy fags, and Daddy types!
Being from a hella working class background is an important part of my identity.
I am looking for cute dates with rad queers who are very comfortable with non-monogomy. Lets swoon and be sweet to each other! handmade cards, flowers, radical poetry, outdoor adventures and heart swelling times!
I believe in honest and direct communication :)