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32 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:38pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), C++ (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Living in New York, finally, after years spent gallivanting up and down the eastern seaboard swearing to all my friends in Boston and DC that I'd never move to New York.

Guess I showed them.
What I’m doing with my life
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Computer science(-ish) for fun and profit. Waking up way too early on Saturdays during soccer season. Looking for weird old beers and VHS tapes. Enduring the latter with the aid of the former.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Record digging. Pub quiz. Assembling a karaoke crew on short notice. Knowing my way around a kitchen and cooking for a crowd.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big beard, big vocabulary, big bellowy baritone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ball Four, J R, Black Hole, The Year of Magical Thinking, Consider the Lobster, Pastoralia, The Crying of Lot 49, The Dirt, The Thousand Autumns of Jacob de Zoet.

Movies: Bad Lieutenant, Do the Right Thing, Down By Law, Gates of Heaven, The Holy Mountain, Metropolis, Repo Man, This is Spinal Tap. Crown International teensploitation crap, schlocky VHS bullshit, the cheaper the better.

Music, lately: Big Star, Bill Orcutt, Boredoms, Boris, Can, Chavez, The Dead C, Fucked Up, Giorgio Moroder, Harvey Milk, Jawbox, Lungfish, Miguel, Oneida, Psychic TV, Scritti Politti, Silkworm, Sugar, Swans, The-Dream, Unrest, Unwound, The Vaselines, The Wipers, Wire. WFMU, WPRB, WMBR. Comedy podcasts galore.

TV, lately: Black Mirror, Bob's Burgers, Bojack Horseman, Fargo, The Leftovers, Orphan Black, Review, a TON of reality garbage I can't shamelessly cop to right now. Trust me, it's bad.

Food: Regional barbecue appellations (always: galbi, eastern NC, TX hill country), Cambodian, Xi'an, Pueblan. Oysters, soft-shell crabs, kimchi, collards, asparagus. Strong flavors, fermented foods, and spicy stuff. Always game to try new offal/other unmentionables, seasonal seafood, and glutinous, uh, things. Constantly working on improving my hacky knife skills.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dumb unshakeable class guilt, prison abolition, LGBT issues, infosec and free culture, the future of organized labor and workers' movements. And, let's not lie: fantasy football.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Helping commandeer a jukebox somewhere. Traipsing through the outer boroughs in search of something delicious. At Film Forum.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have one terrible tattoo of a straight-edge cartoon dog. No regrets!