Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Here's where I sound all mean and picky about things. I'm usually
not so concrete like this, but I've learned from reading other
profiles how important it is not to be vague here. If you're
getting messages from people that you have nothing in common with,
it's probably because all you put here is "if you want to".
You should message me if...
- You have a passion for art, design, technology, or video games. I
do, and I would really like to be with someone who feels the same
way. I enjoy video games from a game developer's perspective, so it
helps if you at least appreciate them. Your video game skill or
lack of doesn't matter to me. Just enjoy them!
- You live IN Minneapolis or within close public transit range of
the city. St Paul can work too. I no longer own a car (don't need
one), and have found that relationships fade quickly if it's a big
hassle to see one another in person, especially when work takes up
most of everyone's free time.
- You don't smoke, or are quitting. I have allergies to cigarette
smoke, so it's hard for me to be around people who do.
- You enjoy being outside and are open to things like biking and
long walks. I'm not big into fitness, but I adore peaceful
adventures through town and the nature around it, especially with
- You're responsive. A problem I tend to run into is that someone
is too shy to initiate anything, and instead waits for me to do
everything. I typically have no problem starting up conversations
and organizing things, but if it's me 100% of the time, things
won't work out. Have opinions! Make conversation! If something
annoys you, say something about it!
- Appearance wise, all that matters to me is that you aren't big on
things like makeup and perfume, and that you aren't especially
overweight. I only mention weight, because it's important to me in
a match that you're physically able to keep up with me going out
and doing active things. I tend to be a fast moving person in day
to day life.
Ok! Ugh! Enough bullet points!
I respond to all messages, unless it's just 'hey whats up' or some
kind of copy-pasta, also if I spot an obvious conflict between us.
I'm usually pretty good at sensing if I'll get along with
I look forward to talking to whatever strange girl out there
actually found anything appealing about this profile! :)