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35 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–42
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My Details

Last Online
Aug 28
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
TL;DR I'm realizing that to do the most good with my life probably means I'll need to be poor for a few years. I bought durable things when I made good money, but I don't and likely won't have a lot of money for a while. If that doesn't send you packing, read on...

INTJ (only leaning introverted, though - I'm more of a hybrid).

I don't remember my Big Five, other than that I am extremely low on Conscientiousness and Agreeableness. Fortunately when combined with my other traits, this means I'm a cluttered, highly-nurturing grouch (or crank would be a better synonym) who WILL have your back if you have mine. Also I'm fairly often late, and capable of really deep communication.

I'm on hiatus on OKC. I mostly log in to keep my questions up to date because it's fun. If you wanted to message me or continue a conversation or something, please do, I'm just quasi-blanking my profile for the time being.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I may be flailing like a fish on a tightrope, but by god I'm living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dreaming. Writing. Cackling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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[x] Don't know
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Top 30, last 12 months, as tracked by Read it like an ingredients label, in descending order.

The Weepies, Wye Oak, Angus & Julia Stone, The Wailin' Jennys, A Perfect Circle, Deb Talan, Shook Twins, PJ Harvey, Austin Wintory, Equation, Imogen Heap, Nine Inch Nails, The Decemberists, Mnemonic Sounds, Tracy Chapman, Moby, Sneaker Pimps, Pink Floyd, Splashdown, Washed Out, Boards of Canada, Ulrich Schnauss, The Lowest Pair, Hem, Garbage, Air, The Cranberries, The Dining Rooms, Christopher Tin, Frazey Ford.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. most elements on the periodic table up to and including, I believe, vanadium
2. an energy source to dissipate for the purpose of building order
3. tending living things
4. the lazers
5. yelling about, and occasionally acting on, matters of social justice and civil liberties (I run around and stream the cops)
6. dreaming of escape
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How things can be better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wait til Friday and collapse the wave function.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want to know you.
You should message me if
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You want to.