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_redbean_

38 Brooklyn, NY Man

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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:50pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Bowling Green, OH > Amherst, MA > Montgomery, AL > DC > Oakland > London > Cambridge, MA > NYC

Just moved from uptown to Brooklyn

More later...
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a sociologist. Recently finished a post-doc. Now I'm freelancing, doing research/writing related to labor and inequality. One of my current projects is on workplace democracy.

Also trying to leave more time for making music. And proper meals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking like kermit, adapting to new environments, making scrambled eggs, pullups, dance marathons
The first things people usually notice about me
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People often say I'm laid back, though I don't always feel that way. I also get comments about my bushy hair, or people just start touching it. A bit creepy when it's someone I don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The God of Small Things, A Fine Balance, Invisible Man, The Black Jacobins, Justice Interruptus, Capital, Angela Davis: An Autobiography, Democracy Realized, Envisioning Real Utopias.

Music: Talib Kweli, Asa, Ruben Blades, Jose Gonzalez, Bob Marley, Nitin Sawhney, Joao Gilberto, Nina Simone, Claude Debussy, Erik Satie, Tracy Chapman, The Roots, Sweet Honey in the Rock, Alicia Keys.

Food: dosas, pad see eiw, kimchi pancakes, spaetzle, lychees, banh mi, tacos, hot & sour soup, branston pickle, vegetable korma (the kind made with coconut milk)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
PJs (i.e., poor jokes)
running shoes
writing
chillies
good beats
hope that a radically more egalitarian future is possible
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how pigeons can be vermin despite their lovely, iridescent feathers.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was nerdy before nerdy was cool.
You should message me if
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You laugh easily. You're progressive. You're active. You like to question received gender norms, including the notion that men should always take the initiative :).