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30 Pittsburgh, PA Man


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  • Ages 24–31
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Okay), LISP (Okay), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a happy guy, statistically and anecdotally speaking. The reason likely has something to do with this New York Times article, which contends that the happiest man in America is Asian (✔); 5' 10" (✔); Jewish (half of my family is); 65 years old (just wait); has children (yes please); lives in Honolulu (eh, Pittsburgh is on the same "most livable" lists); owns a business (✔); and makes $120,000 a year (getting there). How's that for the embodiment of a theoretical demographic?
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on small business-related stuff. Volunteering my expertise and sanity to open source software projects. Watching as many critically acclaimed movies as I can. Lifting weights at the neighborhood gym. Comparison shopping online.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building robust, modular software. Making movie recommendations because I'm well watched. Spontaneously gifting things that drastically improve the recipient's well-being. Trolling insecure people. Thinking many steps ahead.
The first things people usually notice about me
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During the winter, my safari hat, hands down. Failing that, my exquisite oriental features.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I recently finished Thinking, Fast and Slow, and before that the Hunger Games trilogy. My all-time favorites are Brave New World, Guns, Germs, and Steel, and Look Homeward, Angel.

Periodicals - I read the Wall Street Journal and Ars Technica daily.

Movies - I'm somewhat of a film critic and average about two movies per week, with a soft spot for period pieces and character studies. Some favorites include Before Sunrise, Casablanca, Do the Right Thing, Dr. Strangelove, Le Samouraï, and Rear Window.

Shows - I bought all seasons of Game of Thrones and Downton Abbey on iTunes, and I think they are superlative. Also, House of Cards serves as a great reminder why I ♥ Kevin Spacey.

Music - I like folk/pop rock (ABBA, Billy Joel, Leonard Cohen), classical (Mahler, Rachmaninov, Schubert), symphonic metal (Epica, Nightwish), and traditional folk music (American, Celtic, Chinese).

Food - It's hard to go wrong with dining establishments like Dinette, Kiku, Penn Avenue Fish Company, Thin Man Sandwich Shop, and Gaucho Parrilla.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends - The last time I checked, they still loved me and thought I was a swell guy.

Logic, reason, and empiricism - They hold me back from joining a UFO cult.

Confidence and ambition - There's no feeling quite like not caring what other people think while doing whatever the fuck I want.

Unlimited smartphone data plan - Having a Wi-Fi hotspot wherever Verizon Guy can get a signal sure beats broadband.

Air conditioning - I didn't realize how important it was until I lived in an apartment without central air.

Mass transit - I'm a wannabe New Yorker and don't own a car. Appropriately so, my place is 20 meters from a grocery store.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... tough problems! If I solve them, everyone potentially saves time and money by not reinventing the wheel. Also, why I can't wear sandals to the gym, despite steering clear of free weights and sticking to weight machines.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
... fixing broken software; clearing out my email backlog; drinking a Manhattan; watching a big/loud Hollywood blockbuster with friends; watching an indie/art film alone. Don't be jelly, but self-employment extends the definition of "Friday" to the whole week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I take a large dose of Resveratrol daily with the aim of living longer and staying healthy.
You should message me if
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... you want to turn the overwhelmingly male-to-female first contact ratio on its head.

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