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55 / M / straight / Available

Tallahassee, Florida

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English

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I am liberal, cynical, and gainfully employed.

My Self-Summary

Well, I'm a 55-year-old white guy coming out of a 25-year marriage and looking for fun companionship, both short term and long term. I'm politically, philosophically, and theologically liberal. I don't care how you do or don't worship, or who you sleep with, dress like, or want to marry, as long as you're basically tolerant and nice to people.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently, reassessing. I've been doing the whole husband/parent thing, but the kids are grown and the marriage is over, so I'm starting a new chapter. I'm a computer professional and part-time musician, and the consensus seems to be that I'm a pretty nice guy (and who am I to argue with a consensus like that, eh?). I have a decent job that I enjoy and although I don't have a college degree, the salary doesn't reflect it, thank goodness! So, I'm going to be playing music, playing with my computers, and generally just playing!

I’m really good at

Now, how do you answer a question like that without sounding like you're blowing your own horn? Of course, one of the things I do better than others is playing music, so maybe that's appropriate. I'm handier than average with computers and used to be a decent tennis player.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't have a lot of info on that, but likely as anything, it's my voice. I worked in radio for a while and get occasional comments on it.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Yes, I like all those things. My favorite books and movies are sci-fi, action, or comedy, with some classics like Casablanca thrown in for good measure. Music - very eclectic tastes. Swing, bluegrass, classic rock, blues, jazz, classic country (not the slick Nashville stuff), Steely Dan, Lyle Lovett, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, Weird Al, J.S.Bach - almost anything besides headbanger metal, rap/hip hop, or opera is cool with me. And where food is concerned, I'm basically a meat & potatos guy, with some slightly more refined tastes. Italian, Mexican, & Chinese are OK, too (both the food and the people).

The six things I could never do without

Sweet iced tea, music, sex, and computers . . . and I'll get back to you when I think of any more :-)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Music, sex, and computers - see 'The six things I could never do without' for more info. I usually already have a glass of tea.;-)

On a typical Friday night I am

Listening to live music somewhere and having a cold beer or a big glass of sweet iced tea. I do love me some sweet tea!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Not much - the private stuff's for one on one. That's why they call it private.

You should message me if

You like what you've read here and you're liberal, tolerant, and not dumber than a box of rocks. Oh, and horny is good, too!