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48 • Aberdeen, UK • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 35–59
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 7
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
Still trying to figure out what to write here. Thought of something as I was falling asleep last night. I wonder what it was....
Hopefully the rest of the sections will give you an idea of me.
That's not something I'm interested in changing, but the down side is that most of my partners have taken their improved confidence and set off in search of something better. It's time for someone to boost mine in return.
Especially love Scotland's dynamic 'trad' music scene. Here's a clip of the kind of music I'm most likely to go hear on my own. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ZCqDpghLVk
Also enjoy blues, old soul, Motown, Dylan, Cohen, Waits, Chris Smither, JJ Cale, Joan Baez, George Harrison, Allman Bros, Delaney & Bonnie, REM, etc. Oh, and a bit of opera. I tend not to think in terms of "I don't like that" but in terms of "I haven't learned how to listen to that yet".
Out of the loop filmwise, how do you find the good ones amongst all of the current overheated leftovers? Would love to have help in that.
Current favourites for mental stimulation are history and geography. I think I'm making up for a childhood in an abysmally flat landscape.
P.S. Have you figured out yet that I don't take myself seriously? I'm going to look like a right glaikit dafty if I keep with the smiles to clue you in.
If I'm on my own, chances are it involves a film, book or music. Most likely music.
Just a friendly note from an experience here. Someone I was getting on with well through e-mail disappeared for nearly a month, then asked if I'd be interested in meeting him. I would have been, definitely if not for that month, and might still be if he had a reasonable explanation. The thing is, I was in hospital (which he knew was upcoming) when he sent the invitation and by the time I'd logged back in he'd deleted his account. I don't have any way to get a hold of him to tell him that of course.
This and a few other things have reminded me of how little we might know about what's going on in the lives of the people we're in contact with over the internet, and how important it is not to read our own emotions into their words and silences.
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