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24 Tallinn, Estonia Woman


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  • Ages 18–28
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My details

Last online
Mar 22
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Less than $20,000
Seeing Someone
Strictly non-monogamous
English (Fluently), Estonian (Fluently), Russian (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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---I'm very sorry, but I'm not online here a lot these days. Being a lunatic nerd as I am, I don't generally have much time for that kind of things. I might visit about once in two or three months but even then I usually don't have time to reply. It doesn't mean that I have decided to ignore you or smth and for even my own surprise I usually remember who the writer is. There are many people here that I'm actually very interested in talking to. So, I'm not saying you can't write me, you can. But my reply might come very late. I usually reply a little quicker in summer, still not quickly, though.---

It might be weird to bring that kind of stuff up in the first (or second) paragraph, but since this is a dating site, I will make some things clear. I've romantically liked multiple people at the same time most of my life, which combined with some research has resulted in me identifying as polyamorous. I'm willingly in a mono relationship, though. My new life guideline is that I should just do what makes me happy, not giving shit about how unconventional it is or what other people think. Also, I used to worry irrationally much about possible future problems, but now I'm focusing on just enjoying the moment. And I've found this loving and very open-minded guy who makes me feel almost free even when in a mono relationship. At the moment I'm enjoying being with him and so that's what I'll do, even if it means acting relatively mono. Whatever I might want later, comes later and I won't worry about that now.

So, my point is, I'm not available and therefore not interested in any relationships/sex/dates or the like regardless of the fact that I'm poly. Besides that kind of stuff, I'm free to do about whatever I want. That includes talking to people about _whatever_ I feel like, dragging foreigners around town and so on. (Not that I was any good at the latter) My bf knows full well how open I am with people about all kinds of things and is okay with it. Yay, I'm really-really happy about it.

I still have a huge interest in poly and plan to be very active about the topic. Meeting the poly community and reading "The Ethical Slut" has been one of the best things that ever happened to me in terms of self-development and living the life I enjoy. I'm highly interested in connecting poly and poly-curious people in Estonia, so please do let me know if you live in Estonia and have any interest in the topic.

Music and love are the most important things in my life. I learned the piano for about 10 years, the flute for some years, have sung in choirs from the 4th grade and graduated music school with the piano and on a lower level with the flute. I left music school in high school due to having no time. I also used to compose my own small piano pieces and I listen to music all the time. Not only for entertainment, but also because it makes me see the world very differently and is the only thing that surely helps me when I'm nervous, upset or anything like that. So you can say I'm addicted to music, it sometimes really works like a drug for me. Recently I mostly listen to choir music and metal, often mixed up. So no point in talking to me about music if you think people only listen to metal when they're angry and want to eat someone. In my case it's more like the opposite - I tend to be almost bouncing-up-and-down-cheerful after listening to it.

I'm friendly, liberal and extremely tolerant and open-minded. I don't only tolerate gay people, for some reason I like them. I don't know why. For myself, one of the tests here told me that I'm "Bi with a straight preference". Which seems to hold true. Statistically most of the people I like are male, but there have been a few women also, which is why my profile says I'm bisexual. I just want to keep my options open.

I am friendly, open-minded and hopefully soon oblivious to close-minded people's opinions.

PS. Some of my answers to match questions are probably outdated, so feel free to ask if anything seems suspicious.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently studying IT and being busy with my numerous hobbies. The biggest of them is music. I'm even considering studying it after I get my Master's in IT.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting lost. Where's the "I'm really bad at" section? I'd have way more stuff to write there.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would hope that they notice my smile, eyes or intelligence, but mostly it's still my boobs. And maybe that I am shy at first and seem weird for some people, because I don't daily put effort into looking feminine. There are days when I go to school in dress, shoes and make-up, but normally I wear sneakers, glasses, no make-up at all and I kinda like it that way. I have naturally dark eyelashes and so on, so I don't see a problem. I also like that my current glasses are electric blue. As well as some of my recent jeans. I also have yellow ones, for example. Not into punk looks, though. If I happen to dye my hair blue some day (a dream, kind of), it will certainly still be long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Little Prince by Saint-Exupery. The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde. Also the HP series, and "Role play" by Hans Olsson. For some reason. Dunno. I also like things by Jules Verne, Peter Hoeg, Sofi Oksanen, John Fowles, Jaan Kross, William Golding. And I did like Twilight, even though the plot was quite easy to foresee.

The Negotiator, Loving Annabelle, While you were sleeping, Pay it Forward, Love Actually, The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Intouchables, Ice Age, The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, Memento. I'm sure I forgot many good movies.

The longest list ever. I listen to different kinds of things: metal, rock, classical (usually choir or piano), club music, drum and bass, the favourite is probably metal, and lately choir music. Basically visit for more information. But a short list: :D
Cradle of Filth, Korn, System of a Down, Guano Apes, Pink Floyd, Pärt Uusberg, Sirenia, Within Temptation, Lacuna Coil, The Cranberries, A Perfect Circle, Blue October, DJ Shadow, Hamka, Helloween, Evanescence, Bomfunk MC's, Martin Grech, Nightwish, Xandria, ArkiForce, Urmas Alender, Hollywood Undead, Terminaator, Orelipoiss, Panic! at the disco, Crematory, Linkin Park, Vanilla Ninja, Chalice, Enigma, Veljo Tormis, Eric Whitacre, Knut Nystedt and so on.

Food: Potato salad, cocoa, pear juice, junk food, ice-cream, fruits. I'm addicted to all kinds of sour things, I can eat lemons without any additions, for example. And I can eat lots of cabbage, almost in any form you can imagine.

Kõigil laulupidudel olen ka neljandast klassist peale laulnud.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, music, my mp3-player or something similar. Also probably a pen and a paper for lists. Having a musical instrument is quite important for me too.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All the things I have to do. I always have several to-do lists. In high school my life got so busy that I had not only a to-do, but also a to-think list.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, maybe not studying all the time anymore. Resting from the week, playing the piano (if I happen to have access to any), in choir camp? There's also some chance to find me in messenger that time. Maybe, on some very rare occasion out having fun, meeting friends. Or meeting strange foreign and Estonian people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There's quite a big chance that I'll tell anything you ask. But I won't guarantee it. Especially if you're a 40-year-old perv looking for young girls.

Oh, and I just realized that I'm afraid of small holes. Ok, maybe I shouldn't call it being afraid. I just terribly dislike them. I can't even think before looking away or doing something like that when I see them. And I don't loathe all of them, but some kinds of. Mostly just small holes in paper or weird stones. But they can be seen in lots of places. Weird, huh?
You should message me if
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-You are able to write bearably. I'm not constantly looking for grammar mistakes and I'm sure I make some too, but I terribly hate people who can't write at all. Especially if they're too self-confident.

-And I'm definitely interested in people who have managed to read all of my profile. I know how long my profile is, so reading the whole damn thing must mean you're really interested.

Don't message me if:

-You strongly believe that your religion or way of life is the one that everyone should live by.

-You're a 40-year-old perverse bastard trying to seduce young girls. Don't get me wrong, I can't say I'm not a perv myself and love doesn't ask how old you are, but I hate older people who go exclusively for young girls.

-You think you're the man of my dreams and I am going to fall for you right away. I hate overly self-confident people. I really do. Even if you were otherwise perfect, I wouldn't get over it.