My romantic life is peppered with examples of having chemistry with someone only to realize that we are incompatible in the bedroom. This profile is my attempt at directness to avoid this ultimate disappointment.

I am an attractive, experienced, dominant man. I am interested in meeting someone who is looking for the above. This includes self described subs, as well as women looking for a learning experience. Despite being somewhat of an alpha outside of the bedroom, I am not a lifestyle dom and any play is limited strictly to what immediately gets us off.

I keep myself busy.

That should really go without saying...

A degree of intensity.

HUGE confidence.

Now I know about half of you ladies considering sending me a message just finished reading 50 Shades of Grey. This book is not an accurate portrayal of a D/s relationship.

There is no way to answer this question without being cliched.

Put sex and control on the list.

The kink questions on okcupid are sub centric. I do not like having my hair pulled. That does not make me less kinky than you.

Doing things you've only dreamt about.

I just want you to imagine for a minute that if this is what I'll readily admit, just how deep the rabbit hole goes. See you on the other side!

You are interested in learning more, and want to see my regular profile. If I visit your profile, and don't send you a message, it doesn't mean I don't find you attractive or interesting. It means that you left no indication that you would be interested in this type of relationship No, having a huge kinky bar under personality is not enough. If I give you a few stars, it means I think you're alright, but I'm not going to venture a guess. If we are looking for the same thing, for god's sake, speak up.

I should note that simply because this profile is about sex does not mean I want to hook up with any random person who messages me. I have the luxury of being picky. I am looking for someone I can connect with, even if it's casual.

In fact, even if we do meet, I will almost certainly not sleep with you on the first date. This type of relationship is a trust game, and I am looking for a sub as responsible as I am as a Dom.