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41 M South Pasadena, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 29–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:01am
Asian, White, Other
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, thanks for viewing my profile.

Online dating is like trying to remember a good commercial.. The good ones are short and interesting.

So, before you change the channel...

Here are my 30 seconds:
- Road trip to the tip of South America at age 7
- Fell like a rock into a river in New Zealand
- Jumped into the Antarctic water after soccer
- Just a Japanese-Polish guy from Silverlake
- Caught a ghost staring at me

I will drink with you, talk stories and get to know you. Always introspective and optimistic, makes for more fun. Witty banter is my weakness.

Bonus, if these phrases feel normal then we will get along.
- Lets give it a try
- To be honest, I don't know
- I respect that

And now back to your regularly scheduled show... 
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a heart of a teacher who works in business. I have fun helping others believe in themselves, figuring out the next new widget to solve the latest insurance pickle, and making it happen. I am a director at an insurance company.

Always trying to take more chances, be a better person. So excited about taking an improv class (not comedy) through April 2014. Fun, scary & exciting all within two seconds.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Quick wit, to a fault
Banter for pure enjoyment
Figuring you out, quickly of course
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most people cannot figure out my ethnic background. Happens all the time, I am Japanese and Polish American.

Then it is my height (6'2) and that that I don’t quite look or act like an Asian (whatever that may mean).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Mom and pop restaurants because the food is so much better, like finding a cheap bottle of quality wine that no one knows about. Ha!

Classic R&B (Marvin Gaye, Stevie Wonder), 90's Hip Hop (Pharcyde, De La Soul, Tribe, Fugees), Current (U2, Coldplay), Classical and Jazz (at work).

Always looking for great books about personal growth. Recommendations are always appreciated. Finished the Four Agreements and the Alchemist, great choices.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My 5 senses
Weekend naps
Intriguing conversations
Spicy foods
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fail gracefully and to try again
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
- Catching up with friends at a bar, prefer Ketel One vodka.
- Relaxing and unwinding
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Just a simple man, of course ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are cute, kind, compassionate, intelligent, witty, wonderful, giving, generous, self-assured, modest, humble, outgoing, shy, etc.


If you just want to give me something valuable, like a good story, a new drink to try or a good laugh.


If you are curious then why not...