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23 Baltimore, MD Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 19–24
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:00pm
Queer, Asexual
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Hinduism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Queer, or gay or some kind of not straight. Some sort of non-binary but she/hers/her are good enough, pronouns are kind of whatever to me. Grey ace or on the ace spectrum. Snarky. Cynical. "Too feminist." Not monogamous and not poly, I came across the term "relationship anarchist" recently and I think that's what fits best - ask me about it if you want, talk to me about your poetry.
What I’m doing with my life
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Winging it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Judging Okcupid profiles. Not messaging anyone. Alternatively recklessly messaging people who won't get back to me. Giving people the benefit of a doubt. Checking the same sites repeatedly. Bad puns. People watching/recognition. Keeping up with the latest protest happening at my alma mater. Analyzing everything. Editing things. Pretending I know what I'm talking about. Playing guitar/figuring out songs by ear. Dabbling in different subjects and sticking to none of them. Being a cat/petting cats. Having conversations about literature/dead Russian authors. Being sensitive. Thinking too much. Caring. Pretending to not care. Writing angry/angsty poetry. Eating candy corn. Being indecisive. Being anxious. Being pessimistic/grumpy. Listening. Spacing out. Being uncomfortable. Avoiding people. Keeping people on their toes. Being a walking contradiction.
The first things people usually notice about me
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"I thought you were in high school."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Jane Eyre, Crime and Punishment, Wuthering Heights, any Murakami, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Sherlock Holmes, Brideshead Revisited, Crime and Punishment, Master and Margarita, The Color Purple, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, The Bell Jar, Brave New World, The God of Small Things, A Thousand Years of Solitude, This Bridge Called My Back, We, The Count of Monte Cristo etc. Also a bunch of zines, ask me about them if you want to.

Poets: T.S. Eliot, Langston Hughes, Allen Ginsburg, Sylvia Plath, Anne Sexton, Sylvia Plath, Yevgeny Zamyatin, Andrea Gibson, Susan Griffin, Lenelle Moise etc.

Movies: Amelie, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Requiem For a Dream, Grease, Little Miss Sunshine, Juno, 500 Days of Summer, Memento, Silence of the Lambs, The Shining, Love Songs, Latter Days, Maurice, Boy Culture, Shelter, Paris is Burning, Weekend, Morgan, Eyes Wide Open, Velvet Goldmine, Joe and Belle, Go Fish, Jackie Brown

Music: Pink Floyd, The Beatles, Fleetwood Mac, The Smiths, Patti Smith, Simon and Garfunkel, Beirut, Elliott Smith, Cat Stevens, Keny Arkana, Lana Del Rey, Johnny Cash, Pearl and the Beard, The Velvet Underground, Mal Blum, Mojo Juju, Queen, John Denver, pop punk, bad 80s music/videos, much more.

Shows: 70's British comedies (Jeeves and Wooster, Faulty Towers, Are You Being Served, To the Manor Born), Food Network, Adventure Time, Bob's Burgers, Twin Peaks, Queer as Folk, OITNB, Star Trek, The L Word [so bad it's good, tell me about your Jenny feelings.] I haven't watched Buffy yet, shoot me. Tell me about a show and maybe I'll watch it with you.

Food: Most things with potatoes or onions. Grilled cheese. I make pretty good sweet potato biscuits.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, journals, music, poetry, art, intuition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
academics, language, the term "poc," privilege, the future, identity and race, the idea of home, chosen family, how to handle relationships of various kinds, mental illness, how to be "better", honesty, vulnerability, visibility, how awkward I am, what I want to read (and reread), poetry/what I'd like to write, communication, whether I should message someone on this site etc. etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a soft spot for sad yt boys.
I don't like Harry Potter.
You should message me if
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You want to have intellectual conversations.
You want to talk about/make fun of literature.
You want to talk about feelings/mental illness and hang out in person.
You want to say something in addition to "hey" or "How are you?"
You can drive [I can't yet].
You can't drive [we can bond over it].
You are a POC and/or are willing to learn how to pronounce my name correctly.
You won't say namaste to me simply because I'm Indian.
You want a cooking buddy.
You gave me a high rating, idk what I'm supposed to do with those notifications okc sends me but I'm shy.
You feel like it.