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54 F Victoria, British Columbia, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 18–100
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:21pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Other, and very serious about it
Aries, and it matters a lot
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Finnish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly), Afrikaans (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am bored with filling these things out. Maybe I'll come back later. OK - back. Now back again because this thing needs an edit. Interests: dance, music, freedom, enlightenment, Western spirituality, Wilhelm Reich, not conforming to conventional non-conformity, I used to love Battlestar Galactica (this millenium's version) - now I have no TV, archery, swimming, [want to learn] kiteboarding, men's rights (including intactivism), Newfoundland, Italy, the UK, probably more stuff I've forgotten about. I remember lying in my incubator and being frustrated that I couldn't dance yet.

I am supportive, intuitive, and individualistic. <--- This was from an older version of OKCupid where they asked you to pick three adjectives to describe yourself.

My sexuality spectrum:

Sexual preference: heterosexual
Gender identity: mostly male (I am high testosterone, have lots of "guy" traits - ambitious, highly sexed, hate shopping, long ring finger, attracted to femininity in a man and prefer more feminine faces and long hair)
Gender expression: mostly female. I look very girly and am gentle and considerate, although I do tend to wear pants more than dresses and never carry a purse.
Relationship Style: Instinctively monogamous

One weird thing about me that I *really* should mention is that it is almost impossible for me to be attracted to men with short hair or shaved heads. :(
What I’m doing with my life
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building a publishing company, working as an astrologer and personal coach specializing in relationships and life purpose. working on spiritual mastery. having fun. mastering the intricate secrets of the easy button i bought from staples several months back (it didn't come with a money back guarantee so i'd better get it right). it does seem to have certain magical powers though, so i believe i will rest easily content for the time being.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dance, whistling, spontaneous musical composition, mental banter, sex, humour, writing, astrology, being comfortable with people, being alone, loving unconditionally, getting along with others, leading, teaching, swimming, researching, dealing with animals, supporting people, changing my life, honesty, loyalty, accomplishing things or overcoming problems through the use of ingenuity
The first things people usually notice about me
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my hair colour, eyes, body, grace, kindness, insight, odd behaviour
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"The True and Invisible Rosicrucian Order", "Harold and Maude", "Ferris Bueller's Day Off", "The Matrix", "The Full Monty", mangos, potatoes, far too much music to even begin to list here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sex, love, spirit, air, healthy food, clean water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
enlightenment, conquering the world, my beloved
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
god only knows
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i've always been attracted to younger men or the youthful spirit at any age. i agree with reich and lowen that repression leads to perversion.
You should message me if
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you feel like it and you are not a d***.