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Last online
Apr 17
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
English, French
My self-summary
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I'm a little bit of an Odysseus - intellectual astronaut. Well traveled in the fields of Science (theoretical physics) and Technology (Software, Algorithms, Machine Learning, Data Science) but heart belongs to the Arts (play guitar, very interested/practiced in Fine Art). My journey has certainly had its share of Wonders and of encounters with Monsters.

I am only second generation and have retained a great deal of European attitudes and culture. I guess I was "predestined" to clash with harsh Calvinist/Puritan America coming from a Catholic upbringing (European aesthetics/assumptions/lifestyle are certainly different than here.)

I am ~highly~ curious and spend a good amount of my time reading and absorbing new ideas. I love adventures - especially travel and have seen most of Western Europe and would love to start exploring the East and North - as well as the rest of the world!

My mother and I have an excellent relationship.


My conflict with America

From Wikipedia:

Puritan America
Thomas Smith's Self-Portrait

Colonial American art saw a large number of memento mori images due to Puritan influence. ~~~~~The Puritan community in 17th-century North America looked down upon art~~~~~, because they believed it drew the faithful away from God, and if away from God, then it could only lead to the devil.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have gone from a training in Theoretical Physics to work in software and technology. I am transitioning back to more mathematically intense work combining what I know in tech with a deep interest in mathematics.

I spend four years as a full time real estate entrepreneur (and am very proud of some of the houses I remodeled) but had to return to work after the Crash. I am very interested in investing and financial independence (and continue to work with a partner attempting to execute various business ideas).

I have recently began playing guitar again and want to continue to improve and evolve. I also love activities pertaining to the Visual Arts.
I’m really good at
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Getting to the root of things. Seeing beauty in almost everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Blade Runner, City Lights, I am Sam - so many - I've probably seen thousands of films - am definitely a Cinephile.

Breaking Bad, Deter, House...
Musically, I'm a Pearl Jam, Stan Getz, Johnny Cash, Bach Partita kind of guy.

Food - Ethiopian, Japanese, Italian, Greek, French, Thai - of course the best deserts are Austrian (slightly biased here).

Books - My reading is so often professional or non-fiction these days - let's see The Big Con was interesting (about con-artists of early last century) - Outliers (about forces that influence where we end up in life) - basically everything and anything - A book about Antonin Artaud (a french cinematic theorist who went insane). 'The Predictioneers' - a book about political game theory. Philosophy, History ....

Accompany me back to Burning Man... Tell me your theories of Architecture or Urban Planning/Childhood Development/Fate/Fashion...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, movies, music, my guitar, sketchpad, computer/internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, culture, science, philosophy, money
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes out with friends at a wine bar. Cocooning at home or out at a restaurant with someone interesting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A wiley woman could sweet-talk me into almost anything.
You should message me if
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This resonates!

I am looking to orbit as a captured planet a woman who is my sun and star.