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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:27pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here comes the pitch:

I'd like to think that I'm a bright sort, awake, a deep thinker, always hungry to learn and discover. So I read and I write and I visit and I ponder and it's never enough, which is as it should be. I live for good music, good food, good places and good people. I'm a lapsed musician, been a chef in another life and I write for a magazine and web, mainly about food and the arts.

Oh, and I review restaurants, although I still can't quite believe it.

I've been told I’m a little old fashioned but in a good way, i.e. I open doors for others but don’t wear tweed. And while I enjoy the finer things in life (or would like to) I’ll admit I’m mostly just a big kid and a hopeless day dreamer. I dig meaningful conversation, so long as there’s a lot of laughter in there too.

Things I'm not: a millionaire or anything close; a full-tilt extrovert; a bad kisser; a good dancer; a playa, a sports nut/ give a shit-er; shallow; as clever as I'd like to be...

Things I am: kind; dry of humour but warm of heart; prone to endearing social gaffs; a music addict; a rational-skeptic; soulful; a good cook; bit of a geek; book-devourer; TV-ambivalent; sick of my own lists...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making it up as I go along.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, writing, music, procrastinating, listening, contemplating, getting it wrong...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Don't even get me started about books... Ok, I read a lot of fiction,science, philosophy, pop-culture, classic literature and history. I yearn to write a book of my own one day. Scratch that: I will.

Music; it's all about the soul and the beat so give me rock n roll, blues, funk, jazz and retro rock with a little modern fuzz thrown in.

Film: Need a balance of popcorn and smarts

Food: I write about food for a living, but I'm pretty swish at cooking French shiz
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A notepad
A smart-arse quip
Other people's laughter
A decent wifi signal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of everything. And what to make for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In a restaurant giving quiet thanks that I no longer work in one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shot JFK. It's this whole weird thing...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
It would be great to meet someone who shares my outlook but who knows her own mind, has an absurd sense of humour, a warm heart and hypnotic eyes. If this site helps me find her, then that’d be all kinds of ace.

... Alright, maybe a couple of caveats:

1) Distance: if we're too far away, i.e. 50 miles+ it probably isn't going to work out, sadly. Whoever said "love conquers all" clearly never met the M25 at rush hour.

2) "If u lik 2 tlk lik dis, lol" , you should probably buy a dictionary and definitely leave me alone.