(I prefer the username 'CerebralSmartyPants', but it exceeds the OkCupid character limit.)
I think most of us probably look at the pics first, so if you've browsed through mine & you're reading this, hi - & welcome.
Unlike most guys, I think it's totally uncool to be arrogant, prideful, or boastful, so I prefer simply describing myself, mentioning what others say about me, being lighthearted & self-effacing, and letting you decide for yourself - if you're interested, please feel free to let me know (yes, I know most girls want us guys to take all the initiative, but it's really okay (and very sweet of you!) to drop a nice hint ;-) - thanks.
I'm monogamous, kind, communicative, easy to talk to, encouraging & supportive, teasingly & playfully sarcastic, brainy, articulate, confident & humble, simple & complex, strong & sensitive, serious & silly, extroverted & introverted (in other words, ambiverted), with an actively clever sense of humor (and freely parenthetical - think of Seinfeld searching for his Elaine - don't know who they are? - shame on you!).
I don't like arguing, criticizing, or blaming - I prefer discussing calmly. I'm as imperfect as anyone, and although I'm very fit, athletic, & muscular (not to be confused with musclebound), I suppose being a computer professional also makes me somewhat of a geek or nerd (at least by definition). I'm a considerate, passionate, compassionate, empathetic 'good guy' (not to be confused with 'goody two shoes guy'), I'm always just a kid, and I'm not intimidated by anyone - regardless of how supposedly 'cool' or 'awesome' they think they are.
I'm not influenced by trends, fads, or fashion (guess that's kinda' obvious, huh?). I try to be the best me I can be - many people say I'm a rare, special guy (in really beautiful ways, which is incredibly flattering) - I think for myself, and while I keep an open mind to others' opinions & ideas, there are four I always listen to above all others: God, Jesus, my mom, and my dad. I try to frame everything in positive, empowering ways for everyone (which I encourage all people to do) - if you think we might be a good match, it'd be very cool hearing from you.
Please be monogamous, communicative, cute, take good care of yourself, and have a nice personality & a good sense of humor. Not a 'player', but not a lazy couch potato either (no offense intended to actual lazy couches or lazy potatoes). If you're shy or introverted, no problem - and I don't mind if you're somewhat overweight or have baggage & issues (I think everyone does) - just be totally open to sharing them with me and working on them together. (And if I read one more profile in which someone says she's 'awesome' or seeking a 'partner in crime', I'm sending Paula Deen and Martha Stewart after her!)
I love spoiling you and treating you like the most special girl in the world, and being treated like the most special guy in the world by you in return.
Here's hoping we consider each other perfectly awesome - no matter how imperfect or 'unawesome' we might be!