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41 M Berkeley, CA

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Do you ever get the feeling we're just a couple of human needles looking for each other in a ginormous online haystack?

If we like each other, we don't act elusive or play 'hard to get'. We believe in calmly discussing, not arguing. We accept responsibility for our actions. We're apologetic & forgiving. We love closeness, intimacy, & cuddling (yes, I really do like cuddling :-)

Friends, acquaintances, & clients say beautiful things about my personality, intellect, insights, & sense of humor - I just try to be the best me that I can be.

I'm looking for the 'real thing', not just hookups. And the 'real thing' is much more difficult to find, which is why I'm here - I hope you're here for the same reason.

I enjoy my job & make more than enough to comfortably support myself. I love playing tennis. I also love intimacy, romance, and spoiling (& being spoiled by) you. I like subtle, cerebral, sarcastic, quick-witted, observational humor. I'm a good listener & enjoy easy, open communication.

I'm an INFP personality type (click the link - it's nice having something so special in common with someone as cool as Johnny Depp). Unconventional, talented, kind, confident, & humble.

I'm a simple (in a nicely complex sort of way), monogamous good guy who's not intimidated by anyone, and who always stands up for myself, for you, & for others (including animals). Brainy, fit, & strong - and if you appreciate my sense of humor, I love making you laugh!

And you? Cute, communicative, sweet, sincere, & monogamous, with a good sense of humor & some emotional maturity - you know how to be silly & serious. Your personality is more important than your physical appearance - you're not arrogant, loud, angry, critical, or a 'princess'.

Ideally we'd meet by accidentally bumping into each other at a grocery store, spilling our items, helping each other pick them up, & feeling a mutual connection with chemistry - maybe we can do something similar here - got groceries?

I don't mind if you have baggage (I think everyone has enough to fill an airport luggage carousel) - just be totally open to sharing your feelings & emotions. Chemistry & patience are important for both of us, and we do our best to be positive, appreciative, supportive, & encouraging with each other. ♥
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an independent computer consultant, training hundreds of clients all around the Bay Area in personal computers (Mac & PC), mobile devices (iOS & Android phones & tablets), Wi-Fi, the Internet & cloud computing, search engine optimization & search engine marketing (SEO / SEM), and more. I enjoy being able to help so many people, and our interactions are more personal than typical business relationships. (Here and here are links to my business websites, and here's a link to my Yelp business listing if you'd like to know more about me and what I do (be sure to read Yelp's 'filtered' reviews too).

For outdoor exercise & fitness, my favorites are tennis & running - perhaps we can introduce each other to some fun things we can enjoy together.

And - like most of us - I'm usually trying to make the world a better place in whatever ways I can.
I’m really good at
- being a loyal, supportive, encouraging, reliable friend
- listening and helping
- teaching gently with patience
- making people laugh without causing spontaneous combustion
The first things people usually notice about me
that i like to compliment things i notice about them
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- books: i'm not exactly a 'typical' reader - i research things i want/need to know for myself and others, identifying the substance, skipping the filler, and extrapolating - my interests include medicine, nutrition, fitness, law, technology, and more

- movies: i tend to prefer well-written, well-produced, & well-acted drama and suspense - i especially appreciate a really good premise - faves include 'three days of the condor', 'the fugitive', & 'secret window'

- shows: not a big tv watcher - mostly reruns of seinfeld & columbo (the two best tv shows ever!), some sports, and an occasional movie

- music: most anything reasonably contemporary that's easy on the ears - yes to a nice melody combined with good lyrics and a beautiful performance, totally no to rap & hip hop - fave singers include gloria estefan, celine dion, & josh groban

- food: high protein, low carbs - wild red salmon, fruits (esp. bananas & berries), veggies (esp. dark leafy greens & tomatoes), milk, eggs, & other dairy, cinnamon, spicy foods, and most things that are nutritious, delicious, & lightweight
The six things I could never do without
(i don't believe in 'never do without' - i believe in 'forever do with')
- health
- love
- miracles
- kindness
- friendship
- communication
- intimacy
- patience
- forgiveness
- humor
- exercise
- happiness
- and infinitely more
I spend a lot of time thinking about
seemingly everything (possibly even more)
On a typical Friday night I am
usually working with clients, having dinner with friends, listenig to live music, or working/relaxing/other at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
just between me, you, & the seven billion other people on the internet?
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you think we're a good match...

...and... want to talk on the phone, then meet for something simple where we can relax & get to know each other a bit...

...and... desire a lasting, passionate, monogamous relationship ♥